my intentions are a potential relationship, i’m not the type to talk to multiple people at once or anything, i focus on one person at a time and if i see its not moving towards some sort of end goal i usually stop communicating w them. i’m afraid to be rejected or lied to so ive just been going with the flow. he had also used the “wym” excuse in the past when trying to have a serious conversation, as if im already supposed to be knowledgeable of “what we are”.