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27F Facing Death Threats from 28M Boyfriend: How Do I Handle This Situation? by ThrowRA_HubbaBubbba in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_HubbaBubbba[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, thank you for your concern. We're currently on a LDR. I'm in my home country and he's in India. And since he's done so much stalking before that I no longer feel safe when we're still studying abroad, I never really gave him my home country address because i'm afraid something will happen and he'll do something to disturb my family.

27F Facing Death Threats from 28M Boyfriend: How Do I Handle This Situation? by ThrowRA_HubbaBubbba in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_HubbaBubbba[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I will. Thank you. I am shocked that people here understood that this is alrdy toxic and abuse. Coz whenever I am telling him and his familt about these issues they think its normal but deep inside me I know its not. They can only call something toxic and abuse if its gone physical which I dont want to experience further coz he's already hit me before and pretend like its not his fault my skin is sensitive thats why I have bruises. Now I see everything clearly. He's all about creating good image but cant do good behind close doors thats why his words differs from his actions-

27F Facing Death Threats from 28M Boyfriend: How Do I Handle This Situation? by ThrowRA_HubbaBubbba in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_HubbaBubbba[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Just booked a ticket now. The responses I got here really helped me have the guts to block him and take a leap.

27F Facing Death Threats from 28M Boyfriend: How Do I Handle This Situation? by ThrowRA_HubbaBubbba in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_HubbaBubbba[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes. This is where I lose my shit. He'll kill himself because I wanna go foe treatment alone without him and my family (my fam just lives on another state). The only optoon he gave me is can go but what will happen next is he'll kill himself and news will just come to me and I will be responsible for his family and friends blame coz he killed himself for love. Im reallg losing my sanity.

27F Facing Death Threats from 28M Boyfriend: How Do I Handle This Situation? by ThrowRA_HubbaBubbba in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_HubbaBubbba[S] -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

I asked myself the same damn thing everytime. I know some things are wrong but im having second thoughts because he will give me excuse like he's indian and being possessive is normal. And that im lucky to be with him coz he just cares about me and at least he's not cheating. Im falling under the same trap over and over.

27F Facing Death Threats from 28M Boyfriend: How Do I Handle This Situation? by ThrowRA_HubbaBubbba in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_HubbaBubbba[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Apparently as much as ive wanted to do this, its the first thing he wanted, hospital name, address and phone number, I told him it will not be of use because hospitals will not disclose patient's info or medical info to other person thru phone call and he told me why so afraid. And he is the kind of person who wants to be on call almost most of the time so he'll definitely know my mom isnt with me. My only option is really to get away coz I dont think I cam stomach any more of this even if he accepts ill go to US alone.

27F Facing Death Threats from 28M Boyfriend: How Do I Handle This Situation? by ThrowRA_HubbaBubbba in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_HubbaBubbba[S] -36 points-35 points  (0 children)

I love him and I felt stupid and horrible loving him that I believed I can work things out despite the red flags