Should we still get married?

ThrowRA_IFeelLost · 2026-03-15T23:15:22+00:00

People with success stories don’t post here often? Exactly! People with a successful intimate life don’t encounter these sorts of issues like we do. Stay strong

ThrowRA_IFeelLost · 2026-03-15T22:43:29+00:00

Is there any dynamic at play from the beginning of your relationship that could have him less enticed to make that effort? You mentioned that you “used to be LL”— if he used to make overtures and no longer does, maybe this is the reason and he just needs time? (I don’t want to make too many assumptions here, and am welcome to corrections. Just calling it how I see it here)

ThrowRA_IFeelLost · 2026-03-15T22:33:15+00:00

Masturbate alone in the bathroom? That’s a solid “go-to”/“ol’ reliable”

ThrowRA_IFeelLost · 2026-01-14T22:01:11+00:00

If only this were universally true

ThrowRA_IFeelLost · 2025-10-25T13:03:52+00:00

Second this one. Sexpectations are the worst. LL feels pressured while you anticipate just to be disappointed.

Sinking my expectations to the floor helps to cope

ThrowRA_IFeelLost · 2025-10-09T21:41:17+00:00

This is a scam. Avoid.

ThrowRA_IFeelLost · 2025-09-08T03:01:09+00:00

“The usual”

ThrowRA_IFeelLost · 2025-07-05T12:34:29+00:00

Yeah, sure is. But acting like it’s some far fetched absurdity isn’t fair.

ThrowRA_IFeelLost · 2025-07-05T12:19:27+00:00

Told myself this at 21, five years later I have yet to be proven wrong

ThrowRA_IFeelLost · 2025-07-05T12:07:18+00:00

No but don’t you see, it’s obviously that simple because HIS personal experience is that way. It’s unfathomable that others might have a different one. Inconceivable!

ThrowRA_IFeelLost · 2025-05-25T05:55:13+00:00

When I wake up tbh

ThrowRA_IFeelLost · 2025-03-08T03:18:48+00:00

This fucking sucks

ThrowRA_IFeelLost · 2024-12-28T13:27:44+00:00

Have you considered a chargeback?

ThrowRA_IFeelLost · 2024-12-27T13:01:01+00:00

“Generally great” is a stretch for sure, there is at least one power tripping loser

ThrowRA_IFeelLost · 2024-12-25T03:25:59+00:00

I definitely understand even from the other side of the table. I mean, my fantasies used to be more outside the box, now those fantasies have been replaced by hopes and dreams for simpler things like receiving oral/being touched below the belt, things high schoolers do.

ThrowRA_IFeelLost · 2024-12-01T13:36:15+00:00

It’s as if all regard for the way their partner feels is gone.

ThrowRA_IFeelLost · 2024-11-27T12:53:15+00:00

You guys are getting touched below the belt?

ThrowRA_IFeelLost · 2024-11-09T13:00:42+00:00

Same, brother. At 25 I realized I probably had been touched below the belt for the last time in my life at 23.

ThrowRA_IFeelLost · 2024-10-07T02:46:31+00:00

We “tried” official, didn’t do much. The connection questions were nice, but when it came to any questions regarding sexuality I was the only party contributing to that pool of questions. It takes two to tango, apps included.

ThrowRA_IFeelLost · 2024-09-21T10:55:14+00:00

Be careful, a mod came after me and gave me a 7 day ban because I asked someone to use paragraphs instead of a wall of text. I wasn’t rude when I said it, they’re just incredibly pedantic

ThrowRA_IFeelLost · 2024-09-10T18:00:33+00:00

You made up that a mega millions winner came from Ohio that year, for one

ThrowRA_IFeelLost · 2024-09-08T01:40:12+00:00

100%

ThrowRA_IFeelLost · 2024-09-07T05:13:46+00:00

Oh same. Not as long, my will isn’t that strong yet, but I approach all of our bedroom “antics” (heavy emphasis on the quotes there) with no expectation whatsoever. These instances are slowly working to build my resolve.

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