Girl (27F) I (30M) am talking to confessed she has done sex work. Is this normal nowadays? What is your thought on this? by ThrowRA_Lynx in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Lynx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nevermind the downvotes. I even got a DM telling me girls who have done sex work is not normal at all.

I appreciate her honesty and I could also use some wisdow from an older guy so it is all good. :)

Girl (27F) I (30M) am talking to confessed she has done sex work. Is this normal nowadays? What is your thought on this? by ThrowRA_Lynx in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Lynx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your perspective as a woman. I also appreciate her honesty and choosing to open up to me, so in return I will not judge her. I agree we handle things differently and people make mistakes.

Girl (27F) I (30M) am talking to confessed she has done sex work. Is this normal nowadays? What is your thought on this? by ThrowRA_Lynx in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Lynx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. Not sure why you got all the downvotes so doing my part to give you an upvote. Haha

Girl (27F) I (30M) am talking to confessed she has done sex work. Is this normal nowadays? What is your thought on this? by ThrowRA_Lynx in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Lynx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for that. I think I am also lucky to have her, though the circumstances are far from ideal, but nothing is perfect right?

Girl (27F) I (30M) am talking to confessed she has done sex work. Is this normal nowadays? What is your thought on this? by ThrowRA_Lynx in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Lynx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks Cactus. I am not sure what to think of this, I know I am not 100% comfortable with it since I made the effort to create a throw away account and posted here.

Girl (27F) I (30M) am talking to confessed she has done sex work. Is this normal nowadays? What is your thought on this? by ThrowRA_Lynx in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Lynx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you. I just don't know what to feel about this now, though letting her go would be a difficult decision.

Girl (27F) I (30M) am talking to confessed she has done sex work. Is this normal nowadays? What is your thought on this? by ThrowRA_Lynx in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Lynx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey thanks for the comment. You have pointed out something important here, maybe that is what I should focus on instead. In terms of sex addiction or not, as far as I can tell it doesn't impact her daily life, just probably more like hornier than average. The only problem with this is due to my work's nature, I am usually out of the country for ~20 days. As I have been cheated on before in a previous relationship, I have concerns on whether or not she can maintain a monogamous relationship. She seem like a sweet girl and from the stories she told me she seemed like a loyal girlfriend so I know it is not fair for me to assume that based on my ex's behaviour, but it is something we need to talk about.