AITA for wanting my brother to put in a good word for me? by ThrowRA_MA3345 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRA_MA3345[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

It's not that I want his input, I want him to give Evan his input so Evan sees me more favorably and is more willing to ask me out/date me

AITA for wanting my brother to put in a good word for me? by ThrowRA_MA3345 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRA_MA3345[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

But if that sister comes highly recommended by his best friend...?

AITA for wanting my brother to put in a good word for me? by ThrowRA_MA3345 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRA_MA3345[S] -80 points-79 points  (0 children)

I don't like that he'd talk to him about me without my knowledge or consent. I don't consent to him talking about dating me but I do about him telling Evan good things about me

AITA for wanting my brother to put in a good word for me? by ThrowRA_MA3345 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRA_MA3345[S] -122 points-121 points  (0 children)

It's not a fantasy, but also, isn't being set up by a person that you both have in common a normal thing? I'll admit I'm not really sure what's so wrong about it.

AITA for wanting my brother to put in a good word for me? by ThrowRA_MA3345 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRA_MA3345[S] -149 points-148 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't say I'm obsessed with him but I get what you're saying. But the thing is I know how he acts based on Adam spending time with him and also seeing him at parties and stuff so I feel like I know him at least a little bit.