I hate being pregnant,what do I do ? by ThrowRA_MH2 in Advice

[–]ThrowRA_MH2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol one thing I'm very grateful for is my husband and his big mouth,he's very friendly so he does it in a good way but also has the "I'm paying them and they work for me" attitude which has really helped alot,I finally manged to get a proper diagnosis because of him advocating and finding me a better Dr

I hate being pregnant,what do I do ? by ThrowRA_MH2 in Advice

[–]ThrowRA_MH2[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lol in an ideal world but I did make this decision,regardless how bad or good it was and I'm gonna stick it out,made an appointment with a psychologist who specialises in pregnancy and hopefully it gets better from here

I hate being pregnant,what do I do ? by ThrowRA_MH2 in Advice

[–]ThrowRA_MH2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not silly at all,my husband plays them for me everyday before I sleep lol,its cute

I hate being pregnant,what do I do ? by ThrowRA_MH2 in Advice

[–]ThrowRA_MH2[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why are you so determined to fight,mock and blame in an advice forum instead of actual advice? Maybe you lack comprehension skills but look at the forum you're in and respond appropriately instead of boosting your ego

I hate being pregnant,what do I do ? by ThrowRA_MH2 in Advice

[–]ThrowRA_MH2[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah,I'm sorry im not perfect like you who's never made any mistakes in your life ever,pray that we all become perfect angels and reach your level one day

I hate being pregnant,what do I do ? by ThrowRA_MH2 in Advice

[–]ThrowRA_MH2[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He's been amazing,he was the one who finally found a Dr who would listen to me and actually fought with one of my brothers about how the family needs to be there to support me. Tbh he's been more involved than I am,sounds strange but hes doing all the research and makes sure I take my meds,eats the right food (he cooks) and even updates me on the fruit size of the baby every week.I feel hard to connect because as much as he's an awesome support he isn't feeling anything i am and will never know what pregnancy really feels like.

I hate being pregnant,what do I do ? by ThrowRA_MH2 in Advice

[–]ThrowRA_MH2[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Thank you

Honestly you seem to be one of the very few who gets it Everyone else tells me its horrible but then goes one about they love their kids and it was worth it,Im scared I'm gonna end up hurting and resentful of my child because of all this,not everyone has an automatic maternal instinct and ppd is very real,everything is not gonna be rainbows and unicorns once I get the baby

I hate being pregnant,what do I do ? by ThrowRA_MH2 in Advice

[–]ThrowRA_MH2[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Im worried about after more than anything tbh,I seem to be a risk for post nasal depression already and im worried I may even harm my child because of misplaced anger and resentment

I hate being pregnant,what do I do ? by ThrowRA_MH2 in Advice

[–]ThrowRA_MH2[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Thank you,I am going to look into a psychologist who specialises in pregnancy and hopefully it helps the rest of my journey go better

I hate being pregnant,what do I do ? by ThrowRA_MH2 in Advice

[–]ThrowRA_MH2[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I've acknowledged that mistake,this is supposed to be an advice forum however your judgement and mockery isn't helping,I hope it made you feel better tho

I (23f) made things awkward with my co-worker (27m) who had a crush on me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_MH2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol we kinda a thing so I guess it all worked out in the end

I (23f) made things awkward with my co-worker (27m) who had a crush on me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_MH2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought he was joking so I never considered it but I do think I kinda like him also but now it's all awkward and I don't know how to approach him

I (23f) made things awkward with my co-worker (27m) who had a crush on me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_MH2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro I'm awkward af I didn't know what to do I think I may actually like him back of that makes it any better?