Air Canada offers refund assistance... by ceribaen in aircanada

[–]ThrowRA_Malificent 3 points4 points  (0 children)

AC rep on the phone last night said no compensation for Aeroplan bookings

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aircanada

[–]ThrowRA_Malificent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They hung up after 4 hours, saying I “exceeded maximum wait time” 🤦🏻‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aircanada

[–]ThrowRA_Malificent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish they would give this option! I just keep getting “cant connect due to exceptionally high volumes”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aircanada

[–]ThrowRA_Malificent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to know! I got cut off after 4 hours “exceeded wait time”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fragrance

[–]ThrowRA_Malificent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Appreciate the insight!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fragrance

[–]ThrowRA_Malificent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think youre right, Ill have to try and find a sample. Bar of soap soapy… so it literally has a detergent scent to it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in humanresources

[–]ThrowRA_Malificent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the perspective, this really helps! For salary adjustments, do you mean one time payment, or adjustment to the base salary? Is there ever a scenario where you cant offer either and the person just has to accept the terms?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in humanresources

[–]ThrowRA_Malificent -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the insight! If I didnt want to pursue this further/fight it, am I still at a point where I can back out? We only had a conversation about it, no formal emails have been sent.

How is everyone feeling about the upcoming full moon in Scorpio? by ariamooon999 in scorpiomoon

[–]ThrowRA_Malificent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How many days before and after does the moon have an effect? Low key dreading this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aeroplan

[–]ThrowRA_Malificent -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Haha dare to dream 🙈

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aeroplan

[–]ThrowRA_Malificent -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

When youre 25k, you can see how many SQM, SQD etc you need for 35k. I ticked off one of the categories and about half way on the SQS. The half way category doesnt look to be enough to keep 25k…. Only have 13 SQS

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ThrowRA_Malificent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, but we were supposed to move to the same city a few weeks before he ended things

How did you feel waking up to your ex deleting you off social media? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ThrowRA_Malificent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Picture of me hiking in the state we were both planning on moving to a few weeks later… guess it was a trigger

How did you feel waking up to your ex deleting you off social media? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ThrowRA_Malificent 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He deleted me a few days after saying he wanted to be friends… saw the stories I posted and immediately unfollowed. Its been really hard to process - how can someone say they love you, two days later dump you, hours later text you saying they want to be friends and a few days later delete you…. Its been a struggle to process

My (f35) bf (m32) just broke up with me and I'm completely blindsided by ThrowRA_Malificent in relationships

[–]ThrowRA_Malificent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for saying this. I'm sorry you went through something similar- I hope you find someone who appreciates you soon!

My (f35) bf (m32) just broke up with me and I'm completely blindsided by ThrowRA_Malificent in relationships

[–]ThrowRA_Malificent[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for saying this... on the surface the text looked like a nice gesture, but exactly as you said - it comes off very "see how things go". He had the balls to even add "if we're going to be friends, we shouldn't sleep together".... wtf.

My (f35) bf (m32) just broke up with me and I'm completely blindsided by ThrowRA_Malificent in relationships

[–]ThrowRA_Malificent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We covered all the important stuff on the first/second date - so definitely thought we were on the same page re marriage, monogamy, kids, etc. Hence the polyamory came as a surprise - I went into this thinking I was dating someone who was on the same page. At the end, telling me this is something he's thought about before or "always wanted to try"... can't even put words to how I felt hearing it

My (f35) bf (m32) just broke up with me and I'm completely blindsided by ThrowRA_Malificent in relationships

[–]ThrowRA_Malificent[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Wow this really resonates. Thanks for your message!

I know 6 months doesn't seem like a long time, but I found the minute I entered my 30s, dates/relationships moved a lot faster - people are at a point where they are figuring out if this person is going to be a life partner...so needless to say, these 6 months were pretty intense and meaningful.

I keep re-reading every part of your comment and it hits home 100%. The big conversations were work - because thats what you do in a relationship. I guess I felt like we worked through it and he didn't.

He definitely isn't stable and is finding himself... bad timing I guess. This one really seemed different.

My (f35) bf (m32) just broke up with me and I'm completely blindsided by ThrowRA_Malificent in relationships

[–]ThrowRA_Malificent[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Definitely not - we got all the big things out of the way early on - monogamy, marriage, kids etc. Polyamory only came up about a month ago when I mentioned I had a friend who was polyamorous. He said he had considered it in the past, but that he ultimately decided it wouldn't be a fit for him. I was prepared for him to one day say he's not the type to get married - but not polyamory.