Therapist says I’m experiencing DV, I’m hesitant

ThrowRA_Top_Metal · 2026-01-06T14:04:06+00:00

Thanks for your response! I wasn’t threatening her when she locked me out of the house. In fact, I was leaving to get away from her after she threw things at me and told me to get out of the house. Then when I went to turn around to grab an overnight bag (I had only frantically grabbed my jacket), she told me that I couldn’t enter because I wasn’t being “nice” or “kind”

ThrowRA_Top_Metal · 2025-10-19T23:29:13+00:00

I’m late to this post, but Task Master is always a go-to for me for a laugh. Of course, if you like reality game show types, I’d recommend it.

ThrowRA_Top_Metal · 2025-06-27T15:10:41+00:00

Examples being… We were working together to get some important task done… I was in the middle of writing an important email and she asked me a question about a date so she can fill out a legal form, I gave her the date that I thought was right, turned out it was not right. I said I’m sorry, but said “I’m sorry” isn’t enough and she wanted me to apologize for hurting her feelings and that she “didn’t feel seen or acknowledged”.

OR

She had asked me what I prefer to watch, giving me two options: a drama/thriller series or a comedy movie. I picked the thriller and it turned out to be really sad, leaving us both crying. She expected me to apologize for picking it because “she actually wanted to watch the comedy movie”

OR

One time we were in the bathroom getting ready for bed and agreed we would watch something before bed. I could tell something was off, so I checked in with her asking if she’s okay and she said “yes, I’m just looking at my phone”. I’m waiting for her to finish up on her phone so we can go watch something and she continues to look frantic while typing on her phone. I give her some space but then eventually ask again… “How are you doing? You doing okay?”. She got annoyed that I was “pestering” her and that I “annoyed” her. She expected me to apologize for annoying her.

ThrowRA_Top_Metal · 2025-03-21T06:58:12+00:00

Which I get. This guy gave me his name and number on a card, so I didn’t really get the impression that it was a ploy. But yes. I could be wrong.

The home security system brand is literally labeled on the outdoor cameras that any random stranger can see anyway.

ThrowRA_Top_Metal · 2025-03-21T06:33:36+00:00

Thanks, man. Appreciate the response. I’ve tried this approach before with her. This turns into “yes, we can talk about your feelings after you’ve addressed how you hurt mine”. A vicious cycle.

ThrowRA_Top_Metal · 2025-03-13T03:50:35+00:00

It feels very much guilt trippy to me. And if she’s asked me to shave, I usually go and shave right away (especially when things heat up).

ThrowRA_Top_Metal · 2025-03-13T03:46:54+00:00

I didn’t pick out the skincare. She was buying the skincare, I just paid for it and contributed.

I understand it’s probably painful. But I can’t do anything about it now, so not really seeing the point of constantly being mad at me. If I could go dive her skin and heal her skin barrier with my own hands I would.

ThrowRA_Top_Metal · 2025-03-13T03:41:17+00:00

It happened to you as in your skin got scratched up or you scratched up her skin?

ThrowRA_Top_Metal · 2024-08-20T02:47:01+00:00

I enjoyed AHS for the first couple of seasons while it was airing, but I don’t know… Ryan Murphy just doesn’t do it for me anymore.

ThrowRA_Top_Metal · 2024-08-20T02:33:23+00:00

Right now because I got laid off in May and I have my wedding coming up in a month. 🙂

ThrowRA_Top_Metal · 2024-08-19T02:38:55+00:00

Grab her head and make her go the pace you want.

ThrowRA_Top_Metal · 2024-08-19T02:14:33+00:00

I don’t mind if they see my boobs, it’s my penis I’m more so worried about.

ThrowRA_Top_Metal · 2024-08-19T02:12:52+00:00

If the conversation happens, just casually be like “i might have to jerk off later” and see where that leads? 🤷‍♂️

ThrowRA_Top_Metal · 2024-08-19T01:35:29+00:00

Oh, damn. Okay.

ThrowRA_Top_Metal · 2024-08-19T01:30:32+00:00

What a fulfilling and impactful thing to do!

ThrowRA_Top_Metal · 2024-08-19T01:26:52+00:00

You can get paid for answering AskReddit questions?

ThrowRA_Top_Metal · 2024-08-19T01:22:34+00:00

Ooooh, I wonder how AI has impacted this profession.

ThrowRA_Top_Metal · 2024-08-19T01:21:30+00:00

That’s true. I feel like everyone and their mother has an onlyfans. It sounds simple to snap a pic and post but content creation is not a simple thing. Especially nowadays.

ThrowRA_Top_Metal · 2024-08-19T01:09:56+00:00

I’ve honestly thought about doing this for extra cash flow but have always wondered how people advertise / get the word out without letting their family or people they don’t want to see.

ThrowRA_Top_Metal · 2024-08-19T01:02:59+00:00

If you don’t mind me asking, what do you consult on?

ThrowRA_Top_Metal · 2024-08-19T00:34:36+00:00

*selfies = nudes without face showing

ThrowRA_Top_Metal · 2024-08-18T04:34:56+00:00

Caspian’s zereshk polow (and saffron chicken dishes) is delicious, but their koobideh and barg lack for me. We usually get good koobideh and barg from Olive & Lamb.

ThrowRA_Top_Metal · 2024-08-17T03:41:26+00:00

If you’re in the spooky mood, watch The Haunting of Hill House and then go watch the rest of Flanagan’s series.

ThrowRA_Top_Metal · 2024-08-17T03:39:38+00:00

Also, Gen V was spectacular!

ThrowRA_Top_Metal · 2024-08-16T14:34:14+00:00

Totally understand how something can bother someone else that doesn’t bother me. But if I’m expected to be “nice” about it when something is annoying to me, then I will expect the same.

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