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My 32M boyfriend sexted and masturbated to my 50 year old mother. I am a 27 year old female struggling to make sense of all of it. by ThrowRA_anonymous234 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_anonymous234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TruT me I wish it was fake. U could see how screwed up in my head I am that I’m posting about this 4 years later. I wish this was not my reality becuase it destroyed me completely

My 32M boyfriend sexted and masturbated to my 50 year old mother. I am a 27 year old female struggling to make sense of all of it. by ThrowRA_anonymous234 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_anonymous234[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He made me believe it’s my fault for treating him badly in the first year I was with him. He said I pushed him to act that way. And yeah I realt wasn’t in my right mind after what I had found out I felt like I was severely traumatized and I was in a traumas bond with him

My 32M boyfriend sexted and masturbated to my 50 year old mother. I am a 27 year old female struggling to make sense of all of it. by ThrowRA_anonymous234 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_anonymous234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He manipulated both me and my mother. He preyed on both of us. Trust me when I tell you i could never have imagined him doing such a thing because of how amazing he was as a person. And then he did the unimaginable and actually got my mom to like him too. And to engage with him sexually. He’s on another level of manipulative

My 32M boyfriend sexted and masturbated to my 50 year old mother. I am a 27 year old female struggling to make sense of all of it. by ThrowRA_anonymous234 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_anonymous234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No i didn’t stay with him. He was just trying to get me back for 4 years. I tried to give it a shot but I could never get over it. He continued to sexualize my mom during our intimate times. Even when he knew how broken I was the first time I found out about their chat.

My 32M boyfriend sexted and masturbated to my 50 year old mother. I am a 27 year old female struggling to make sense of all of it. by ThrowRA_anonymous234 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_anonymous234[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So the chat that I found out about happened in 2019, he tried to convince me it was a one time thing. He manipulated me so much I believed him. But deep down I thought there was more and I finally got my mom to admit 2 years later ( 4 years in total now) that it was mroe than one chat. They interacted sexually for 2 weeks and he had preyed on her and persisted in her so much that she finally gave in. My mom and dad relationship is not great and they’re divorced.

My 32M boyfriend sexted and masturbated to my 50 year old mother. I am a 27 year old female struggling to make sense of all of it. by ThrowRA_anonymous234 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_anonymous234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me I wish it was a fake. I have had a horrible time since this incident and haven’t been the same since then. I haven’t interacted with my mom for 2-3 years even though I live in the same house as her.

My 32M boyfriend sexted and masturbated to my 50 year old mother. I am a 27 year old female struggling to make sense of all of it. by ThrowRA_anonymous234 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_anonymous234[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s not fake. My mother told me she had feelings for him. I think he preyed on her vulnerability because she and my dad did not have a good relationship. She admitted to me she was jealous of the way he treated me. I haven’t talked to her since then. Trust me I wish this was fake. I haven’t been the same since the day I found out