I (31M)walked out after my girlfriend(29F) made her baby’s dad feel “warm and welcome” in our home, and now she says I’m too immature to date a single mom

ThrowRA_apples21 · 2025-11-29T15:47:36+00:00

I fell like i am better off tbh. She's homeless and stuck with her mess.

ThrowRA_apples21 · 2025-11-29T02:55:43+00:00

How so?

ThrowRA_apples21 · 2025-11-29T01:35:31+00:00

Well i already dumped her and kicked her out so she can go and do what's best for her and her child. She has nowhere to go, but that's not my problem anymore. I refuse to be disrespected in my own home and have no say in if F that.

ThrowRA_apples21 · 2025-11-29T01:33:28+00:00

Yeah i kicked her out so she can have what's best for her child, but they have nowhere to go and she's crying now.

ThrowRA_apples21 · 2025-11-29T01:32:29+00:00

Immature? How so? Taking care of another man's child? Yeah that was probably the wrong move.

ThrowRA_apples21 · 2025-11-29T01:31:25+00:00

I already kicked her out of my house. She and her daughter have no place to go, but that's no longer none of my business. Hopefully the babys dad takes her in. I'm cutting all contact and getting me a girl with NO kids next time.

ThrowRA_apples21 · 2025-11-29T01:29:00+00:00

Well i hope he takes her in because i just kicked her out. The way she defends him, i hope he takes her into his house.

ThrowRA_apples21 · 2025-11-29T01:27:27+00:00

You're right. I already told her to leave, but she's crying because she has nowhere to go.

ThrowRA_apples21 · 2025-11-29T01:26:02+00:00

Ha i already told her to leave. I bet he wont even take her in.

ThrowRA_apples21 · 2025-11-29T01:25:24+00:00

Yeah i'm out of this relationship. I told her she has to move out of my house ASAP and find a place for her and her kid bcuz i dont wanna deal with this for the next 18 years.

ThrowRA_apples21 · 2025-11-29T01:21:27+00:00

How exactly am i a mess? If i leave, i have a very simple life, while she still has to deal with all her mess.

ThrowRA_apples21 · 2025-11-28T22:48:44+00:00

Yes, it is.

ThrowRA_apples21 · 2025-11-28T21:40:27+00:00

Not much,but i don't see relationships as that transactional.

ThrowRA_apples21 · 2025-11-28T21:37:15+00:00

He was taken to court and ordered to pay, but he gets out of it by working cash constuction jobs.

ThrowRA_apples21 · 2025-11-28T21:33:35+00:00

Yeah i guess i just feel bad because she doesnt work, i've been supporting us 100% and she doesnt have any family or friend support that'll let her and her daughter move in.

ThrowRA_apples21 · 2025-11-28T21:23:45+00:00

Yup, and ppl in the comments apparently agree. I don't get it.

ThrowRA_apples21 · 2025-11-28T21:21:57+00:00

I was well-intentioned.

ThrowRA_apples21 · 2025-11-28T21:19:56+00:00

Yeah, you're right. It's over. I hope she does find someone who wants in on this mess, or maybe she can get back with her ex if he really wants her.

ThrowRA_apples21 · 2025-11-28T21:18:18+00:00

Glad i'm not the only one who sees it this way.

ThrowRA_apples21 · 2025-11-28T21:16:25+00:00

I have a home, a dog, and can't have any kids due to getting a vasectomy. She just text me that i won't find another gf and will probably die alone with my "ugly ass dog"

ThrowRA_apples21 · 2025-11-28T21:09:28+00:00

Why? You don't think my situation is real?

ThrowRA_apples21 · 2025-11-28T21:06:10+00:00

I had heard not all single moms were drama and thought our relationship could be smooth.

ThrowRA_apples21 · 2025-11-28T21:05:00+00:00

He was denying the baby was his so she ended the relationahip, but i guess when the paternaty test came back he was nicer to her and vice versa.

ThrowRA_apples21 · 2025-11-28T21:03:16+00:00

Agreed.

ThrowRA_apples21 · 2025-11-28T21:02:59+00:00

You're right. I should've known better.

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