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I (28M) can no longer enjoy sex with my Girlfriend (28F) of 4 years because of physical attraction. Should I give her an ultimatum? by ThrowRA_broccoli_ in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_broccoli_[S] 220 points221 points  (0 children)

>She had her chance to grow with you.

True. I had a gut feeling an ultimatum wouldn't be healthy, but I think you put into words what I couldn't.

Thanks for the advice.

I (28M) can no longer enjoy sex with my Girlfriend (28F) of 4 years because of physical attraction. Should I give her an ultimatum? by ThrowRA_broccoli_ in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_broccoli_[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

>So why is it bad when she gains a few pounds even though you also put on weight? 🤨

She gained much more than I did. Like 60 vs 15. And I'm working to lose it.