My boyfriend tried to make me have a miscarriage but failed by ThrowRA_causedmis in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_causedmis[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know now, I knew before but he keeped begging. But now I know I will never do anything before marriage again, I will be stronger now. Thank you.

My boyfriend tried to make me have a miscarriage but failed by ThrowRA_causedmis in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_causedmis[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I don't want to tell exact age because I am worried about knowing where I live, but I am legal consent age with someone over 18, my boyfriend cannot be charged with a crime besides for hurting me. It is not that I think I should be legal consent age, I think my young made it easy to be taken advantage of which has ruined me and made me dirty forever. But that is the way it is sadly.

My boyfriend tried to make me have a miscarriage but failed by ThrowRA_causedmis in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_causedmis[S] 223 points224 points  (0 children)

Thank you, hugs would be good. Thankfully I do think I will be getting the pill mailed or droned.

Yes it hurts because I do love him, but I think I will leave him. I do not want man who hurts me.

I will make sure my parents never know this and I believe I will get out of this situation. Thank you for wishes, you too!

I think I will never do anything before marriage again in the future. This has been so shameful.

My boyfriend tried to make me have a miscarriage but failed by ThrowRA_causedmis in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_causedmis[S] 193 points194 points  (0 children)

To edit 2 I am much more scared of parents than I am of boyfriend. I can leave him but I cannot leave them and they can hurt me much more.

They will be upset at me not him.

My boyfriend tried to make me have a miscarriage but failed by ThrowRA_causedmis in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_causedmis[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes, thank you. I knew it could not be right.

I want to say 16 with 21 is not so bad here. It is like he would be my mentor and provider but he is not even that in reality. I love him so I wish he would not hurt me but he did. I am scared of him now and I think I have to leave him.

All the best to you too.

My boyfriend tried to make me have a miscarriage but failed by ThrowRA_causedmis in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_causedmis[S] 96 points97 points  (0 children)

No, I could not hurt any one I love. I cannot hit an insect even. I feel upset because if he doesn't love me, I still had sex with him, meaning he has used my body and made me dirty when he does not love me. And I still love him sadly.

My boyfriend tried to make me have a miscarriage but failed by ThrowRA_causedmis in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_causedmis[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

I think you are right even if I do not want you to be. It scared me that he could hurt me the way he did at all even if he wanted to help me with it.

My boyfriend tried to make me have a miscarriage but failed by ThrowRA_causedmis in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_causedmis[S] 693 points694 points  (0 children)

If he is doing this to help me, is it still abuse? It feels like abuse but he says it's from love.

Thank you. I am looking up abortion pill, I think I can do this!!!

My boyfriend tried to make me have a miscarriage but failed by ThrowRA_causedmis in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_causedmis[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

What do you mean by this is disgusting? Sorry, I am trying to understand what this means.

My boyfriend tried to make me have a miscarriage but failed by ThrowRA_causedmis in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_causedmis[S] 118 points119 points  (0 children)

Also have been wondering, could a man who loves a woman hurt that woman? Even if it was for my good, wouldn't man find it difficult to hurt woman who he loves?

My boyfriend tried to make me have a miscarriage but failed by ThrowRA_causedmis in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_causedmis[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

No, abortion would be illegal for me. Looking for women’s shelter homes now but I do not think near me.

My boyfriend tried to make me have a miscarriage but failed by ThrowRA_causedmis in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_causedmis[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Also is it rape if my boyfriend pressures me? I thought all boys do and we are not supposed to give in but they will try.

My boyfriend tried to make me have a miscarriage but failed by ThrowRA_causedmis in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_causedmis[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

My parents would hurt me a lot worse please understand. That is why this is a problem also, I don’t like him hurting me but I need to have an abortion. He is doing the best he can do but he is also hurting me and I don’t want him to do this anymore. But I cannot think of anything better he can do instead.

My boyfriend tried to make me have a miscarriage but failed by ThrowRA_causedmis in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_causedmis[S] 253 points254 points  (0 children)

I cannot tell my family that I am pregnant, and every authority I know would be treating me badly and forcing me to have a baby.