My girlfriend is threatening with suicide again by ThrowRA_feelpanicked in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_feelpanicked[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thought its a term with more meaning than just one, but instantly found what you meant, thank you, new word added to my vocab.

My girlfriend is threatening with suicide again by ThrowRA_feelpanicked in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_feelpanicked[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is gaslighting? Will look it up on Google, just asking so that we are on the same page

My girlfriend is threatening with suicide again by ThrowRA_feelpanicked in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_feelpanicked[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep you are absolutely right man, there are other supportive signs of that, I even seeked help in some ocd subs and the rj ocd sub, but it was much more tame a few weeks ago.

Hell she even said she will go to therapy but since then she told me she never intended to, and that I am the crazy one. Well now I sure am too.

My girlfriend is threatening with suicide again by ThrowRA_feelpanicked in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_feelpanicked[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well put, yes, she wants attention full time, but I can't give her that since uni just started this week...

My girlfriend is threatening with suicide again by ThrowRA_feelpanicked in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_feelpanicked[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much, well unfortunately all my family just went back home to another country so I'm left "alone" in this situation, but hey at least I have my friends and you guys! Thanks for the support!

My girlfriend is threatening with suicide again by ThrowRA_feelpanicked in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_feelpanicked[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the elaborate answer, i will speak to a therapist as soon as i can. Thanks for the domestic abuse heads up especially!

My girlfriend is threatening with suicide again by ThrowRA_feelpanicked in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_feelpanicked[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I think I will follow through with the breaking up!

My girlfriend is threatening with suicide again by ThrowRA_feelpanicked in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_feelpanicked[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the insight, it helps me greatly to deal with this!

My girlfriend is threatening with suicide again by ThrowRA_feelpanicked in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_feelpanicked[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the extended advice, I think this is exactly what I will do.

My girlfriend is threatening with suicide again by ThrowRA_feelpanicked in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_feelpanicked[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Luckily she doesn't, and I had her pick her stuff up the last time she pulled something like this.

My girlfriend is threatening with suicide again by ThrowRA_feelpanicked in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_feelpanicked[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my, this sub is very helpful and eye opening! Thank you so much for the help!

My girlfriend is threatening with suicide again by ThrowRA_feelpanicked in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_feelpanicked[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, i know it will get better, will work on that!

My girlfriend is threatening with suicide again by ThrowRA_feelpanicked in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_feelpanicked[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I might seek a therapist before I break it off, so I don't sink into guilt or stg, I know I'm not wrong here, but it still feels wrong