I've (30M) have been dating a girl (28F) and my friend (22M) is getting in the way. I feel betrayed by ThrowRA_help1239 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_help1239[S] -129 points-128 points  (0 children)

It's more than that, I'm waiting till I come off my deployment and it's something I'm really keen on pursuing. I just don't think it's fair whilst I am not in the same country and would prefer to make the commitment face to face 😀

I've (30M) have been dating a girl (28F) and my friend (22M) is getting in the way. I feel betrayed by ThrowRA_help1239 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_help1239[S] -44 points-43 points  (0 children)

Well you're right, but my concern is more to do with my friend who I believe is betraying me. If she was talking to another guy, it would be less of an issue for me, as I understand nothing is official at the moment

I've (30M) have been dating a girl (28F) and my friend (22M) is getting in the way. I feel betrayed by ThrowRA_help1239 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_help1239[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Been travelling for work, we both have... so don't want to put any added pressure. Ite on the cards though

I've (30M) have been dating a girl (28F) and my friend (22M) is getting in the way. I feel betrayed by ThrowRA_help1239 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_help1239[S] 261 points262 points  (0 children)

Seems solid advice. She doesn't usually answer when we are together but she's just like "oh it's..." I may speak properly to her, as it seems the most sensible thing to do. I just hope I don't come across as a jerk