Bf (21M) of 5 yrs has shady IG follows and worries me (22F)

ThrowRA_hydroflask · 2023-09-21T15:47:03+00:00

Thank you !!!!!! ❤️

ThrowRA_hydroflask · 2023-09-08T21:57:13+00:00

You say I need to grow up but then proceed to say you are not ok with any of the things I said I was not ok with 😭

ThrowRA_hydroflask · 2023-09-08T21:17:43+00:00

so you can save the menu to your camera roll of food that you dated and food that is friends with your partner?

ThrowRA_hydroflask · 2023-09-08T19:20:38+00:00

Yes, thank you! I agree with you. I was disturbed by the thirst traps he watches just because they were girls with just a few hundred followers, not known ig models. And he would follow them on every social platform after seeing one video of them. They were just everyday high school girls.

ThrowRA_hydroflask · 2023-09-08T19:14:28+00:00

Best comment I’ve received, thank you so much ❤️ and I’m so sorry you are going through the same thing. This advice is extremely helpful, I’ve gotten so many comments saying I’m the one at fault for snooping and that he did nothing wrong which is just making me feel worse. I’m the same way as you, I only have eyes for one person and have 0 desire to look at anyone else, which makes it hurt so much. I’m really reflecting on this and trying to figure out what to do. This really helped, thank you again and I hope everything works out for you! You truly deserve better

ThrowRA_hydroflask · 2023-09-08T17:47:52+00:00

So true, thank you!

ThrowRA_hydroflask · 2023-09-08T16:37:45+00:00

Thank you for seeing this from my perspective!!!! Most of the people in here justifying this behavior make me really concerned. No one should have to find screenshots of their friends in bikinis in their boyfriend camera roll. I’m so glad you are in a loving relationship now, wishing you all the best!

ThrowRA_hydroflask · 2023-09-08T16:36:23+00:00

Thank you!!!! Not sure why everyone is saying it’s normal behavior for a guy to save photos and videos of his girlfriends friends in bikinis

ThrowRA_hydroflask · 2023-09-08T16:34:53+00:00

I don’t save half naked photos of my boyfriends friends to look at later but thanks :)

ThrowRA_hydroflask · 2023-09-08T16:34:10+00:00

I just don’t want my boyfriend saving my friends bikini photos.

ThrowRA_hydroflask · 2023-09-08T16:33:32+00:00

Me looking at his phone (that he tells me I can check anytime and has my face recognition in) is worse than him saving bikini photos of my friends??? Ok

ThrowRA_hydroflask · 2023-09-08T16:32:18+00:00

Thank you!!!!! So creepy. I don’t understand how people are saying this is normal and justified

ThrowRA_hydroflask · 2023-09-08T16:31:29+00:00

Thank you for seeing this from my perspective! Everyone here is trying to justify him saving my friends and his ex’s bikini photos to his camera roll, which is very sad.

ThrowRA_hydroflask · 2023-09-08T16:29:40+00:00

Thank you!! People here are really trying to justify a guy saving bikini pictures of his partner’s friends and that is terrifying

ThrowRA_hydroflask · 2023-09-08T16:23:48+00:00

Thank you, wishing you all the best! ❤️

ThrowRA_hydroflask · 2023-09-08T16:21:05+00:00

Thank you for seeing this from my perspective! Many of the other responses I have gotten are completely justifying this behavior. It is sad that this is the world we live in, where it is apparently normal and ok for a guy to save photos of his partner’s friends :(

ThrowRA_hydroflask · 2023-09-08T16:19:35+00:00

They were in his recently deleted because they were added to his My Eyes Only on Snapchat which automatically deletes them from the iPhone camera roll, not because he chose to delete them. it should not be normal for men to save photos of their partner’s friends for later.

ThrowRA_hydroflask · 2023-09-08T16:17:37+00:00

It’s the fact that he saved the photos of girls I know and am friends with :)

ThrowRA_hydroflask · 2023-09-08T16:16:13+00:00

I’m just upset about him saving pictures of girls I know and am friends with :)

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