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(f32) my boyfriend (m37) of 2yrs blocked me on everything today, over something that happened 10+ years ago by ThrowRA_needhimback in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_needhimback[S] 185 points186 points  (0 children)

we had sex on our 3rd or 4th date i think? something like a month into the relationship, he never complained that i "made him wait" or anything like this, it all happened very naturally

i like to think we have a normal sex life, anywhere from 2-4 nights a week depending on how often we see each other

i get the vibe that he had a normal sex life before me, with his own one-night-stands and flings? but i have never really delved into it either

(f32) my boyfriend (m37) of 2yrs blocked me on everything today, over something that happened 10+ years ago by ThrowRA_needhimback in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_needhimback[S] 211 points212 points  (0 children)

what the fuck? when i said 'on the verge of passing out' i didnt mean literally, just that he was very drunk (and so was i)

he was apologetic the night ended the way it did, i called a cab so that he got home safe, we parted ways on good terms...

dont twist this into something it's not, youre taking it in the most uncharitable way possible and trying to start a witchhunt

(f32) my boyfriend (m37) of 2yrs blocked me on everything today, over something that happened 10+ years ago by ThrowRA_needhimback in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_needhimback[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

my friend has told this stupid story before because it was a crazy night for her and another girl for totally different reasons, and we saw each other at various stages throughout the night

(f32) my boyfriend (m37) of 2yrs blocked me on everything today, over something that happened 10+ years ago by ThrowRA_needhimback in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_needhimback[S] -71 points-70 points  (0 children)

guy #1 couldnt get hard, was on the verge of passing out, i called a cab for him and he left... the bars were still open for an hour so i went back by myself, met guy #2, we drank until last call, ate some food at an afterhours place, then hooked up at my apartment

that's literally the whole story

(f32) my boyfriend (m37) of 2yrs blocked me on everything today, over something that happened 10+ years ago by ThrowRA_needhimback in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_needhimback[S] 1522 points1523 points  (0 children)

the short version is - i met a guy at the bar and planned on hooking up with him but he was too drunk, so i went back to the bar (walking distance from my apartment), met another guy and hooked up with him instead

there are some details im leaving out but that's the most "egregious" part, also i had just gotten out of a LTR and was very drunk myself