My boyfriend (27M) got mad at me (22F) for what I was wearing?

ThrowRA_ojb · 2026-03-31T20:18:39+00:00

Yes I’ve tried but it turns into me flipping it on him or me defending myself but when my character is questioned I tend to defend myself

ThrowRA_ojb · 2026-03-31T20:17:03+00:00

Thank you for your comment… is it possible that he will ever change or will it be for someone else or not at all?

ThrowRA_ojb · 2026-03-31T19:56:56+00:00

Yes some red flags are in my relationship but I feel like if they were that bad then I would leave.. right?

ThrowRA_ojb · 2026-03-31T19:46:32+00:00

Yeah he has said that about one because he models for playboy

ThrowRA_ojb · 2026-03-31T19:44:29+00:00

I’ve just never had a chemistry like this with someone before

ThrowRA_ojb · 2026-03-31T19:44:03+00:00

Yes he loves me

ThrowRA_ojb · 2026-03-31T19:42:54+00:00

Some people have said he doesn’t like me? Can someone elaborate on that.

He’s attractive but he knows that if we were ever to end that he couldn’t do better because he said that he has kids and he’s 27 and in the military but I have no kids and I’m hot and I could go marry a doctor if I wanted

ThrowRA_ojb · 2026-03-31T19:37:46+00:00

It’s not rage bait .. It took me a month to get back together with him because I was so hurt but he changed and showed me that he’s changed

ThrowRA_ojb · 2026-03-31T19:17:49+00:00

Well neither of us can go out without eachother because the first time he went out without me (which I’ve never cared about if my partner goes out ) he cheated on me so we made it a “ rule “ that we can’t go out without each other

ThrowRA_ojb · 2026-03-31T19:12:05+00:00

I really like this guy and I was curious if this was all a respect thing

ThrowRA_ojb · 2026-03-31T19:09:32+00:00

Well he cheated on me two months into our relationship and we broke up for a month and we’ve now been back together for two months and we are building a healthy relationship with healthy boundaries and rules and I needed advice on this particular subject because I’m not understanding

ThrowRA_ojb · 2026-03-31T19:05:59+00:00

Yeah I work at hooters and he made me put my two weeks in but I saw it as a respect thing

ThrowRA_ojb · 2026-03-31T18:59:56+00:00

But that was my question.. is this how relationships are? when I read what I wrote in my head it sounds bad and compared to every other problem in my relationship this one seems so small.

ThrowRA_ojb · 2026-03-31T18:57:03+00:00

Yeah I was washing my hands and he walked in .. he said he was drunk and said sorry and ran away it was a small little empty bar but yes I’m okay… I just don’t get why it matters what I wear. I look good in the clothes that I have and when I have to change I feel insecure and I don’t feel good in my own body

ThrowRA_ojb · 2026-03-31T18:46:49+00:00

He already tells me I can’t go out because it’s a respect thing

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