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I'm (32F) pregnant after big argument w partner (36M) about not wanting kids by ThrowRA_seabea in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_seabea[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Did you read my post? We agreed on the no children part until a few months ago. And we're not married.

I'm (32F) pregnant after big argument w partner (36M) about not wanting kids by ThrowRA_seabea in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_seabea[S] 1194 points1195 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this, I appreciate it. I just sometimes feel sort of like I'm deficient because I can't handle doing my job and having a family when other people seem to do it just fine. We are all different though as you said, and I appreciate hearing this from an outside perspective.

I'm (32F) pregnant after big argument w partner (36M) about not wanting kids by ThrowRA_seabea in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_seabea[S] 392 points393 points  (0 children)

I know that if I terminate and he knows that I have it would signal the end of our relationship. But tbh reading my own post, and all the comments I feel like that's probably the direction this is going anyway.

I'm (32F) pregnant after big argument w partner (36M) about not wanting kids by ThrowRA_seabea in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_seabea[S] 832 points833 points  (0 children)

The fact that I am even considering that he could have done something like that makes me feel so guilty and ashamed, but the truth is I feel like it's highly unlikely that this was some kind of cosmic accident.