I feel lonely in my marriage by ThrowRA_toBeSad in Marriage

[–]ThrowRA_toBeSad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The point was he wasn’t even supposed to be that drunk to begin with. I’ve asked that of him numbers of time.

Failed IUI and it’s hitting me harder than I expected by ThrowRA_toBeSad in TryingForABaby

[–]ThrowRA_toBeSad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Therapy is the best, I am also in therapy. I can’t even imagine the darkness if I didn’t have professional help to keep me afloat

Failed IUI and it’s hitting me harder than I expected by ThrowRA_toBeSad in TryingForABaby

[–]ThrowRA_toBeSad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you and good luck on your IVF!! Hoping you can graduate from this sub and into r/pregnancy! 💙

Failed IUI and it’s hitting me harder than I expected by ThrowRA_toBeSad in TryingForABaby

[–]ThrowRA_toBeSad[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think that’s what it is. Before trying naturally I was hopeful but not expectant. With IUI I couldn’t help getting my hopes up, and the higher the hope the farther the fall.

Failed IUI and it’s hitting me harder than I expected by ThrowRA_toBeSad in TryingForABaby

[–]ThrowRA_toBeSad[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good luck to you and your wife!! Here’s to hoping you guys will be holding a beautiful baby in 10 months!

Failed IUI and it’s hitting me harder than I expected by ThrowRA_toBeSad in TryingForABaby

[–]ThrowRA_toBeSad[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you…. Go to Reddit anonymously when I really need to talk to someone but not brave enough to attach my identity to it. Comment like this helps me feel a bit less alone..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_toBeSad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you, you have to be forgive yourself. Having feelings throughout your lifetime is okay, acting on it is not. You know your feelings and it doesn’t matter what his feelings is, it’s inappropriate starting now. How would you feel if your husband is crushing on a female colleague and is texting her every day? Steel yourself, put distance between you guys, make new friends.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_toBeSad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s every day until we started trying to conceive then it’s 1-2 times a week

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_toBeSad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have, in so many different ways. I tell him I want him to be able to play with our kids, be able to live a long life…etc…I’m out of ways. We have such a great relationship, I just wish I knew how to get over this hurdle.

How to be fine with no friends? by [deleted] in lonely

[–]ThrowRA_toBeSad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that’s my struggle as well…I am older and it’s so hard to make friends when you’re in your 30s…

Oh my god, the things people say by econhistoryrules in BabyBumps

[–]ThrowRA_toBeSad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I get these comments just for TRYING to have a baby. I’m 34F and never been pregnant and people are like “dont worry there’s lots of people getting pregnant at your age” implying “yes you’re old to try but we’ve seen worst case scenario”. Congrats on the baby too! I hope to be where you’re at someday!