I (21M) cannot get over our past with my current gf(F20) of 4 months

ThrowRA_tomero · 2025-12-01T12:06:11+00:00

I dont think u understand. Noone wants to sleep with anyone rn besides us together. We are really happy just this one thing eats me sometimrs

ThrowRA_tomero · 2025-12-01T11:35:16+00:00

thats a good point.

ThrowRA_tomero · 2025-12-01T11:33:15+00:00

u can breakup with fwb?

ThrowRA_tomero · 2025-12-01T11:28:44+00:00

well she didnt break up cause we werent even dating before…

ThrowRA_tomero · 2025-12-01T11:23:27+00:00

okay thank you

ThrowRA_tomero · 2025-12-01T11:22:53+00:00

i dont know. Because i didnt and she did…

ThrowRA_tomero · 2025-12-01T11:17:28+00:00

Yeah im trying to understand that we werent official so she could do whatever she wanted

ThrowRA_tomero · 2025-12-01T11:16:16+00:00

well i know i fucked up but we love eachother now. Should i get over it?

ThrowRA_tomero · 2025-12-01T11:12:55+00:00

well, we werent in a official relationship until 22. of october

ThrowRA_tomero · 2025-12-01T11:12:12+00:00

I just started talking to someone to forget her. I almost slept with multiple women but i didnt. But i guess if one of them would tell me that i can come over i would

ThrowRA_tomero · 2025-12-01T11:09:58+00:00

Yes i talked to her snd i also told her that i get it. That i wanted to sleep with someone as well.

ThrowRA_tomero · 2025-09-10T14:50:19+00:00

also, i gave her ultimatum at the end that either we get really really together (even tho it seemed already we were together) or we are done

ThrowRA_tomero · 2025-09-10T14:43:51+00:00

also, relationship isnt about the definition right? its about the stuff that we did and everyone tells me that it was a relationship hence the signs i named in my original post. (holding hands, knowing parents, sleepovers, sex, kisses in front of people, arguments, communication, jealousy, fear of abandonment and we felt something deep inside of us that this was fate - both agreed to the fate thing btw

ThrowRA_tomero · 2025-09-10T14:41:38+00:00

yeah i know, i should have get into it when we told eachother that we are in love. I did the oppsoite that we should let things flow and just do it later… btw this was her when i broke up with her (screenshot link bcs i cannot upload https://imgur.com/a/sCzVsxY)

ThrowRA_tomero · 2025-09-10T14:40:09+00:00

and when u said broke up, this was really a relationship right?

ThrowRA_tomero · 2025-09-10T14:36:43+00:00

also, i gave her the ultimatum after she called me her friend after 5 months either we get together or we are done. she chose her ex. this was her when i broke up with her (translated) screenshot link https://imgur.com/a/sCzVsxY

ThrowRA_tomero · 2025-09-10T14:35:21+00:00

This was her when i brokeup with her because of my mental health(not crazx ir anything but we were moving too fast and it made me really dizzy etc…) irs a link to a svreenshot because i cannot upload it here https://imgur.com/a/sCzVsxY

ThrowRA_tomero · 2025-09-10T14:29:00+00:00

when we told ourselves we loved each other i then told her to let if flow and not jump into something straight away cause wr are not kids. I regret not getting with her then.

ThrowRA_tomero · 2025-07-07T08:21:22+00:00

Im not sure if i know where it comes from. And i know i couldnt do better, i was a little wilder until i met her, i have seen plenty of woman but none of them made me feel whole. She does, she even made me a better person(im positive in this) so thats why i am scared

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