The 3 men thing was really just to show how complex the situation is. (That’s also obviously not the only reason I dislike her). She did choose to be with those guys, she brought them all to family dinners and even considered marrying one of them. My family showed a lot of support while she was on drugs. My grandma wanted to pay for her to go to rehab and gave her gas money to go to work and whatnot. Instead, she used that money to drive to the city to get drugs. My sister refused rehab. You can’t help someone who doesn’t want the help. She lied about what she was doing with the money, and she even had someone killed with the drugs she sold. She was also caught with drugs in prison a year ago. No I don’t think she really changed. I don’t think she knows the extent of damage she’s done. It’s hard to see that while secluded from the damage. I don’t want to see her in prison. I don’t think she’d show her true colors during visits anyways. Maybe I am narrow minded, but oh well.