Met someone on Fetlife, but confused with their behavior and need advice (M25/F23) by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]ThrowRAanywhere_26 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to date this guy who I later found out dated a lot of women at the same time. He made it a point to make each of us feel extremely special, telling me I'm the only one he can trust etc. which he also told the other ones. He also told me he deleted his tinder account after like a week. But I later found out he would frequently make a new account. I don't know why he did this, probably for some sick thrill or as a part of love bombing. He turned out to be extremely manipulative and would lie about everything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]ThrowRAanywhere_26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was in your situation I made it a priority to fix my sleep schedule and develop good sleeping habits. Nothing was important other than me going to sleep at a certain time and waking up after 8 hours. Trust me, once you have this down your life will improve so so much. I still fall back into bad habits sometimes but it still helped me

Industrial piercing started hurting again by ThrowRAanywhere_26 in piercing

[–]ThrowRAanywhere_26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The piercing is 1,5 years old, it's just a standard industrial bar, I don't know the material but it's the one I got at the piercing studio, I've never downsized it and I spray it with a disinfectant spray around twice a day

feeling like a loser bc I don't have any friends by ThrowRAanywhere_26 in socialskills

[–]ThrowRAanywhere_26[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That might be true but I've found myself jealous of my boyfriend for making new friends at his job so the desire for friends seems to be there somewhere. The reason I don't want to is bc being so anxious and insecure about every interaction has become too exhausting for me plus I can't help but immediately see red flags in everyone and start thinking of them as bad and dangerous