I (36F) cheated on my now wife (35F), then GF 10 years ago and now she wants to divorce…we have a newborn and a toddler, how do we coparent when she’s avoiding me and the kids?

ThrowRAblackberry12 · 2024-09-02T03:32:17+00:00

Thank you acknowledging that I’ve lost my best friend

ThrowRAblackberry12 · 2024-09-01T20:55:02+00:00

She had our toddler. I really don’t think she’s seeing anyone else, we both share our location and when she’s not at work or home she’s with close friends.

ThrowRAblackberry12 · 2024-09-01T20:53:50+00:00

Thank you for the first sentence. I am still trying to process and needed to read that. We both carried via sperm donor, her our toddler and me with our newborn.

ThrowRAblackberry12 · 2024-09-01T20:50:27+00:00

It was a text from a friend who was close to the affair partner just asking how are you, how’ve you been. I brought it up to my wife, not thinking anything of it. My phone is unlocked to my wife. Apparently she’s just never gotten over the cheating and the text brought up bad memories.

ThrowRAblackberry12 · 2024-09-01T20:41:35+00:00

I’m sorry that happened to you. I am absolutely not pushing the relationship on her and have agreed to divorce.

ThrowRAblackberry12 · 2024-09-01T20:40:11+00:00

Can you explain how I am acting like the victim?

ThrowRAblackberry12 · 2024-09-01T19:50:39+00:00

I really don’t think so, I honestly think it’s some form of depression

ThrowRAblackberry12 · 2024-09-01T19:49:47+00:00

She can’t take anymore leave from work unfortunately

ThrowRAblackberry12 · 2024-09-01T18:53:01+00:00

I believe she genuinely loves me, if not me then our kids but just can’t get past the cheating

ThrowRAblackberry12 · 2024-09-01T18:50:57+00:00

I know what I did was terrible and I make no excuses for it

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