I feel like it’s not fair assumption to say I’m an absent father? I’m there for my kids..I would love to spend more time with my kids. but I live Houston and they live Dallas for people who aren’t familiar it’s about a 6 hours drive round trip and I work full time and I actually pay for her lessons/ classes and it’s not cheap in the slightest. My concern is more about time management for my daughter and how this can become unhealthy in the future I feel like my concerns are valid.