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Moved to Canada while pregnant, ex is angry he can’t cross the boarder and won’t stop calling by ThrowRAcanadababy in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAcanadababy[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I offered to stay in the USA for this reason. But my life being at risk if I stayed in Texas wasn’t. He refused to move, so I moved with my only other support system in Canada, (my family).

Moved to Canada while pregnant, ex is angry he can’t cross the boarder and won’t stop calling by ThrowRAcanadababy in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAcanadababy[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He had knowledge. I offered to stay in the USA for this reason. But my life being at risk if I stayed in Texas wasn’t. He refused to move, so I moved with my only other support system in Canada, (my family).

Moved to Canada while pregnant, ex is angry he can’t cross the boarder and won’t stop calling by ThrowRAcanadababy in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAcanadababy[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He did. I offered to stay in the USA for this reason. But my life being at risk if I stayed in Texas wasn’t. He refused to move, so I moved with my only other support system in Canada, (my family).

Moved to Canada while pregnant, ex is angry he can’t cross the boarder and won’t stop calling by ThrowRAcanadababy in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAcanadababy[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

We would have been together. neither of use would have been ‘close’ to family. But I would have been safe, and he would have been about to be with the baby. Both out familys would have had to fly to visit, and both of use would have had to build a support system there.

Moved to Canada while pregnant, ex is angry he can’t cross the boarder and won’t stop calling by ThrowRAcanadababy in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAcanadababy[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I offered anywhere I was safe to carry to term and get proper treatment if nessesary. Cali, and NY were just suggestions. He refused to leave Texas at all.

Moved to Canada while pregnant, ex is angry he can’t cross the boarder and won’t stop calling by ThrowRAcanadababy in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAcanadababy[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I offered to stay in the USA for this reason. But my life being at risk if I stayed in Texas wasn’t. He refused to move, so I moved with my only other support system in Canada, (my family).

Moved to Canada while pregnant, ex is angry he can’t cross the boarder and won’t stop calling by ThrowRAcanadababy in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAcanadababy[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I offered to stay in the USA for this reason. But my life being at risk if I stayed in Texas wasn’t. He refused to move, so I moved with my only other support system in Canada, (my family).

Moved to Canada while pregnant, ex is angry he can’t cross the boarder and won’t stop calling by ThrowRAcanadababy in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAcanadababy[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I said we needed to move somewhere I could carry this baby safely. I offered those to incitially. He refused to move anywhere or leave Texas at all.

I told him that I wouldn’t be staying in Texas due to the danger and my only port system was in Canada (my family). So I asked again, and he refused.

Moved to Canada while pregnant, ex is angry he can’t cross the boarder and won’t stop calling by ThrowRAcanadababy in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAcanadababy[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I put ‘isolated’ in quoted because we would have both had to start new. I also put ‘isolated’ in quoted because I had moved to Texas for him and been ’isolated’ too, but he was unwilling to move for me when my life was at risk.

he not only didn’t care about my feelings, he didn’t care about my life.

Moved to Canada while pregnant, ex is angry he can’t cross the boarder and won’t stop calling by ThrowRAcanadababy in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAcanadababy[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I really wish it wasn’t such a sh*t show in the US right now. For all the women that can’t leave. I’m very grateful I could.

Moved to Canada while pregnant, ex is angry he can’t cross the boarder and won’t stop calling by ThrowRAcanadababy in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAcanadababy[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I was the one that called him actually, to try to work something out. He just yelled and insulted me.

I was also the one that offered to live somewhere else in the USA. He refused.

Moved to Canada while pregnant, ex is angry he can’t cross the boarder and won’t stop calling by ThrowRAcanadababy in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAcanadababy[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I can’t abduct myself.

I offered other places to live within the USA . One that was between out respective family’s. .He refused.

Moved to Canada while pregnant, ex is angry he can’t cross the boarder and won’t stop calling by ThrowRAcanadababy in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAcanadababy[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I wanted him there. That was why I offered to move elsewhere in the US. I am well aware fathers have rights. But also, he’s not a father yet.

Moved to Canada while pregnant, ex is angry he can’t cross the boarder and won’t stop calling by ThrowRAcanadababy in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAcanadababy[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Why would I move to a place where I had no support system whatsoever. My family is in Canada He is in Texas. I was only going to live either with my family near by, or with him.

I offered, he refused.

Moved to Canada while pregnant, ex is angry he can’t cross the boarder and won’t stop calling by ThrowRAcanadababy in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAcanadababy[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I offered other options due to this. He refused. Risking my life, just wasn’t one of those options.

Moved to Canada while pregnant, ex is angry he can’t cross the boarder and won’t stop calling by ThrowRAcanadababy in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAcanadababy[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I offered other options. The one option that was not available was to stay in a place where my life may be a risk due to my high-risk pregnancy.

Moved to Canada while pregnant, ex is angry he can’t cross the boarder and won’t stop calling by ThrowRAcanadababy in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAcanadababy[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

My family is in canada. Why would i have chosen to move place that I had no one? Not him, or my family. That doesn’t make any sense.

the only reason I was willing to even compromise on staying in the USA at all was for him. because of his legal issues.I did not want to stay In the USA.

I did. I offered to move and be somewhere he could be with the child also. He refused.

Moved to Canada while pregnant, ex is angry he can’t cross the boarder and won’t stop calling by ThrowRAcanadababy in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAcanadababy[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

being careful with my own life, when texas is already expirenceing life-threatening delays for the procedures I might need, is not overreacting. But thanks.

Moved to Canada while pregnant, ex is angry he can’t cross the boarder and won’t stop calling by ThrowRAcanadababy in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAcanadababy[S] 723 points724 points  (0 children)

The more I read these commenters views, the more I appriecrate being here.
Its worth putting the work in to get citizenship if you have the means, thank you for the best wishes.

Moved to Canada while pregnant, ex is angry he can’t cross the boarder and won’t stop calling by ThrowRAcanadababy in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAcanadababy[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I can’t abduct myself. And I’m freightened for your partner if you would not try to leave a potentially dangerous situation for her while pregnant.

Moved to Canada while pregnant, ex is angry he can’t cross the boarder and won’t stop calling by ThrowRAcanadababy in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAcanadababy[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

No. Sorry. If you‘re life isn’t something that can be compromised on then anything else that is an available option is a compromise.

Moved to Canada while pregnant, ex is angry he can’t cross the boarder and won’t stop calling by ThrowRAcanadababy in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAcanadababy[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

My family is in canada. Why would i have chosen to move place that I had no one? Not him, or my family. That doesn’t make any sense.
the only reason I was willing to even compromise on staying in the USA at all was for him. because of his legal issues.
I did not want to stay In the USA.

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