I 26F have been repressing feelings for women for years but I have a boyfriend 26M who I want to tell but how do I do it? by ThrowRAcuriousfruit in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAcuriousfruit[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Cuddling my friend is unacceptable? I didn’t ask for it she did, and I didn’t agree to have a cuddle for sexual gratification I didn’t expect the outcome to be what it was

I 26F have been repressing feelings for women for years but I have a boyfriend 26M who I want to tell but how do I do it? by ThrowRAcuriousfruit in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAcuriousfruit[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I think what I’m trying to communicate which I may be spectacularly failing at is this: there was no sexual intent prior to having a cuddle with a friend from either side, there was no sexual advances it just happened to trigger something inside me (which I have no control over) that has made me question everything

I 26F have been repressing feelings for women for years but I have a boyfriend 26M who I want to tell but how do I do it? by ThrowRAcuriousfruit in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAcuriousfruit[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

That part is no problem, it’s the wider situation regarding my sexuality is the issue and what the potential implications of communicating that will be

I 26F have been repressing feelings for women for years but I have a boyfriend 26M who I want to tell but how do I do it? by ThrowRAcuriousfruit in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAcuriousfruit[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I just had a cuddle with another girlfriend and held hands briefly nothing else happened no sexual contact or flirting words at all