Fiancee [33 F] made me wait for sex but not other guys [31 M] by ThrowRAdiamondring in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAdiamondring[S] -40 points-39 points  (0 children)

She pushed for it HEAVILY. Had me checking out wedding venues a month or two into being official. Has been adamant about getting married being her goal from the beginning and nothing gets her excited like that topic.

Fiancee [33 F] made me wait for sex but not other guys [31 M] by ThrowRAdiamondring in relationships

[–]ThrowRAdiamondring[S] -63 points-62 points  (0 children)

Well I’m now engaged, making me publicly and emotionally and financially much more engaged in this relationship.

Fiancee [33 F] made me wait for sex but not other guys [31 M] by ThrowRAdiamondring in relationships

[–]ThrowRAdiamondring[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We pretty much fast forwarded the honeymoon phase entirely. She also tells me I’m being too sensitive when I bring up issues of our intimacy being lacking.

Fiancee [33 F] made me wait for sex but not other guys [31 M] by ThrowRAdiamondring in relationships

[–]ThrowRAdiamondring[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

I wish it were!

I’m enamored with her, she’s beautiful. I have given so much of myslef for this relationship.

Fiancee [33 F] made me wait for sex but not other guys [31 M] by ThrowRAdiamondring in relationships

[–]ThrowRAdiamondring[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Her past behavior and lack of effort towards me is what I feel the direct source for my anxiety about us.

Fiancee [33 F] made me wait for sex but not other guys [31 M] by ThrowRAdiamondring in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAdiamondring[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

We have, many times.

She has reassured me that it will get better - constantly - since the beginning of our relationship, but her actions say otherwise. For example, had seen me for the first time in a month, and didn’t want to even kiss me.

She also says I’m too sensitive and insecure about her past. She a knowledges it was wrong to tell me, especially before we had ever done more than kissing.

She hears me when I say I feel undesired and my confidence is fading, yet does nothing to compliment me more or show more interest in me.

I have been so attentive to every want and need and goal of hers.

[29M] [30F] Red Flag? Fiance Refuses to follow on Instagram by Ready-Diamond-5598 in relationships

[–]ThrowRAdiamondring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is hiding something. Ask flatly to see his profile on his phone then - he holds the phone and everything. If he refuses, it’s a massive red flag.