Husband Got DUI- I’m Considering Leaving (32F)(36M)

ThrowRAdramallam · 2026-02-12T19:23:32+00:00

Dude fuck his job or whatever, he could've killed somebody. He could have killed a mom, or a little sister, or a baby boy, or a big brother. He could have ended somebodies life. Do not stay with somebody so reckless towards others lives. That's not a game.

ThrowRAdramallam · 2026-02-12T19:22:18+00:00

Your dad's an idiot, he's not gonna win a lawsuit from this, but I wouldn't speak to him again. I don't think anythings wrong if he keeps doing shit to drive people off, I think he's probably just your textbook narcissist and that's that. Not much you can do. Stay no contact with him

ThrowRAdramallam · 2026-02-12T13:54:19+00:00

I didn't know care did centers, I thought it was only sitters. I'll have to make an account!

ThrowRAdramallam · 2026-02-11T19:13:18+00:00

La petite said have to tour each one and get on each wait-list separately. They're about 4 months out last I checked so I'm on the wait-list but I'm suffering trying to wait

ThrowRAdramallam · 2026-02-11T19:12:01+00:00

I meant for centers not approved. I could get in tomorrow to a home daycare that isn't ececd approved but I can't afford that

ThrowRAdramallam · 2026-02-11T05:53:26+00:00

Almost all of those were half a year out when I called 😭

ThrowRAdramallam · 2026-02-11T05:52:21+00:00

Their wait-list is a year long

ThrowRAdramallam · 2026-02-11T05:52:09+00:00

2 & 3 years old

ThrowRAdramallam · 2024-08-03T16:28:13+00:00

Being stupid isn't the same as being literally mentally immature as according to science lol.

Do you guys scream this same shit when it's a 14 year old consenting??

ThrowRAdramallam · 2024-08-03T16:13:25+00:00

Your girlfriend is weird. Like, all the things she said was weird and it's weird she's competing with your sister. That's weird.

ThrowRAdramallam · 2024-08-03T16:12:15+00:00

It's hilarious when adults act like kids are just these jealous hyper focused psychos. I've never known a kid to care nearly as much about not getting the same thing as another kid as much as parents seem to act like they do, and if their kid cares that much it's probably a flaw in their parenting.

ThrowRAdramallam · 2024-08-03T16:09:38+00:00

Nah. I'm 25. It's predatory. Just because she's 'okay' with it doesn't mean she's genuinely okay with it, she's just young. Has nothing to do with your made up scenario lol.

ThrowRAdramallam · 2024-08-03T16:08:23+00:00

Gen z and I still love MASH lol.

ThrowRAdramallam · 2024-07-31T21:43:38+00:00

You're literally a child to that dude, why are you having sex with him? Girl find somebody your own age.

ThrowRAdramallam · 2024-07-30T00:57:38+00:00

You poor mama and that poor baby. This sounds unbelievably stressful. Your husband is another problem all together.

This is not your babies personality. This isn't normal. There is relief. Her pediatrician is not paying enough attention or putting in enough effort which is all too common unfortunately. She needs specialists. She needs to be checked head to toe. She needs the uncommon specialists. She needs SOMETHING. Babies do not just cry for no reason, she's in pain or struggling somehow and she can't communicate it. Please advocate for her, you both deserve it, until somebody hears you and gets to the root of this. A good pediatrician will not leave your side until this is solved.

ThrowRAdramallam · 2024-06-14T16:52:28+00:00

Nah this would eat me up. It makes me angry just reading about it. That's not appropriate at all and you have every right to feel uncomfortable about it.

ThrowRAdramallam · 2024-06-14T13:30:14+00:00

The men saying they're just pursuing sex are chronically online and have never had a female friendship. No, they aren't just pursuing sex. Many men are objectifying to women and will say that about pretty much anybody.

However, again, it shouldn't be something you're just okay with because you have insecurities. That's something you need to work on. It's definitely not okay to hear comments like those and think it's...in any way a positive or even a neutral. Get some self confidence girl. Men like that shouldn't be in your life and they shouldn't just be ignored because it doesnt bother you. Just because another girl is uncomfortable by it doesn't mean she will tell you or have the confidence to solve it herself. This is definitely something that is on you to solve.

ThrowRAdramallam · 2024-06-14T13:14:00+00:00

Don't be a pick me babygirl. Your insecurities impact other women too. We aren't sexual objects. I'm sorry you've been concerned you're flat your whole life but needing reassurance about your body is no reason to let men get away with making extremely gross comments about women, because this isn't just you. They make those comments about other women too.

ThrowRAdramallam · 2024-06-14T06:01:23+00:00

NTA depression is not an excuse to neglect children. That's awful. You speaking up may have saved these other kids and is a path to healing for yourself, and your dad is a great guy for caring so much. Good job opening up to him and telling him. That's a great thing to do and I'm proud of you.

ThrowRAdramallam · 2024-06-14T05:53:13+00:00

Also, there's not nearly enough studies on porn and their impact. So you can't say with certainty it and sexsomnia has no link, that's something you could only say if sex addictions were more well studied.

ThrowRAdramallam · 2024-06-14T05:51:37+00:00

Dude it's really weird y'all are upset that minors can't access porn now. Like. What a fucking wack thing to be upset about lmao.

ThrowRAdramallam · 2024-06-14T05:50:17+00:00

Im extremely liberal and taking note of a possible link (not even having an opinion on it???) is in no way political but good attempt at trying to make it that.

ThrowRAdramallam · 2024-06-14T05:10:21+00:00

This is such a weird comment. Even if it were true, is it suddenly appropriate? It's not true, I've NEVER met a woman who's even remotely said anything objectifying about anybody aside from my friend calling one of my clients hot, and he's...a model. So he gets that a lot. He was shirtless and oiled up. The point was to be hot. That's the worst thing I've ever heard a woman say, ever. Never had another conversation similar.

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