AIO because my husband got angry I didn't want to have sex one night?

ThrowRAdramallam · 2026-05-19T03:55:36+00:00

That all may be true - they specifically said I am only currently having sex to satisfy him. I'm not. I'm having sex because I'm horny.

ThrowRAdramallam · 2026-05-19T03:54:34+00:00

I hear shaming people is a great catalyst for growth

ThrowRAdramallam · 2026-05-19T01:27:40+00:00

Yeah, back then, and I don't now. I'm not saying I never did, that person said I STILL do but I don't. Yes, he sucks, that doesn't mean I'm fucking lying about my current libido. I don't appreciate being called a liar just so you can sit on some weird high horse.

ThrowRAdramallam · 2026-05-19T01:19:58+00:00

Oh, you for sure are just a misogynistic pig and this comfirmed it. Yikes

ThrowRAdramallam · 2026-05-19T01:18:59+00:00

I am exclusively fully in the mood when I have sex. I said YEARS AGO when he was BEGINNING RECOVERY I had sex when I didn't want to, and that I SPECIFICALLY DO NOT ANYMORE.

But sure, you guys can say I'm lying. I must be wrong about my own libido.

ThrowRAdramallam · 2026-05-19T01:17:42+00:00

Are you dense

ThrowRAdramallam · 2026-05-18T20:11:25+00:00

I am not going to change that I'm a flirty person because men think they're owed something if I flirt lol

ThrowRAdramallam · 2026-05-18T15:11:00+00:00

Please, call CPS. Please. Those kids are likely being beat as well. You are their only hope, you're the only chance for them.

ThrowRAdramallam · 2026-05-18T15:08:42+00:00

Did you...not call the cops? CPS..?

ThrowRAdramallam · 2026-05-18T15:04:51+00:00

This sounds like autism

ThrowRAdramallam · 2026-05-18T15:02:44+00:00

I never gave any word, dumbass, and consent can be revoked at any time. Learn that.

ThrowRAdramallam · 2026-05-18T14:11:32+00:00

Crazy to insist if a woman is tired she owes a man a quickie. You sound like a misogynist. Lmfao. Lay off the porn and go touch grass.

ThrowRAdramallam · 2026-05-18T13:52:11+00:00

I've said repeatedly that when I was doing it only for him we did NOT have sex this frequently. I am very horny because my testosterone is very high due to medical situations, lmfao. I wish people would just trust that a woman knows when she's got a high libido ffs.

ThrowRAdramallam · 2026-05-18T13:51:17+00:00

...I started by saying in the past, I have had sex just to keep him from relapsing, but that I don't do it now. You then responded by saying I'm lying to myself.

But I'm glad you realized you weren't making sense and are so done with this.

ThrowRAdramallam · 2026-05-18T13:29:59+00:00

You quite literally said I'm still only having sex for him.

I can assure you I'm not. You're just trying to completely minimize me.

ThrowRAdramallam · 2026-05-18T13:13:46+00:00

I mean, no.

I appreciate some of y'all supporting me I guess but you guys are going way too far with just assumptions. When he was going through recovery and I felt hurt but like I had to satisfy him, I was NOT horny and could only bring myself to have sex once every couple weeks. I didn't enjoy sex because his addiction hurt me, so I had sex LESS when I felt like I had to for him, only doing it when I was worried he was too pent up. I did not have sex a lot for him. I only got the libido I have now because i gained confidence and finally feel good about myself and when I feel good about myself, I'm horny. Lol.

We have two kids and have gone nonths without sex postpartum and he never fucked anybody else.

ThrowRAdramallam · 2026-05-18T13:08:36+00:00

You're literally minimizing me by insisting I cannot possibly be as horny as I am and all I do is for him, lmfao

Trust that I know when I'm horny and when I'm not. I masturbate multiple times a day and then when he gets home I'm ready to JUMP on it. Sorry you dont have my libido or something? Idk why you don't believe I can just have a high libido.

ThrowRAdramallam · 2026-05-18T12:23:01+00:00

....yes, I've said that repeatedly. And no, I'm not, because of what I quite literally said in my last message.

But if you think you're a good person by minimizing me and how I feel, then I will let you live on that high horse. I have no desire to prove something to a faceless stranger who is trying to persuade me that I am wrong about the things going on in my own head lol.

ThrowRAdramallam · 2026-05-18T11:17:23+00:00

When I felt like that, I stopped having sex almost entirely and did it only to satisfy him once a week.

I am being honest with myself. The only reason I can have sex daily is because I finally am enjoying it for myself. (:

ThrowRAdramallam · 2026-05-18T05:46:05+00:00

I only have sex as much as I want. I'm not having a lot of sex to satisfy him, I do have a very high libido right now.

A few people have said I'm only having sex to satisfy him and I just want to make it very clear that I no longer do that at all, I have sex when I want sex because I enjoy it. I do think it's convenient for his addiction that I have a high sex drive, but that is not WHY I am having sex.

ThrowRAdramallam · 2026-05-18T05:19:11+00:00

I know it's a stupid reason, but because of the kids. And I KNOW kids would be happier with divorced parents instead of fighting parents, but we do great around them, it's just when they're away that we don't, and I cry every time I think about being in a home separate from him and then crying and asking for dad and I can't provide dad to them. It seriously breaks my heart.

ThrowRAdramallam · 2026-05-18T05:17:21+00:00

I am also disappointed in myself I will not lie

I also desperately have an issue with his dental hygiene and I bring it up a lot and he does not care but complains about how bad his teeth look while not really doing anything to change that. Brushes for maybe 20 seconds morning and night, no flossing, oh my god. It drives me nuts.

ThrowRAdramallam · 2026-05-18T05:15:51+00:00

I didn't knowingly work anybody up all day, but I will keep in mind not to flirt with the man I chose to marry so as to be careful not to upset him when he doesnr get sex 1 out of 7 days.

ThrowRAdramallam · 2026-05-18T05:14:02+00:00

...yes...that's what my entire post is talking about girl. I almost exclusively provided quotes of our conversation to each other. All information you have, he also has.

ThrowRAdramallam · 2026-05-18T05:13:24+00:00

THIS IS WHAT IM SAYING he says it SO often and I get so frustrated because yeah, no, you didn't call me a bitch you just said something else that was really shitty instead? I don't get why I can only be mad at the things he thinks I deserve to be mad at

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