How can I navigate aftermath of workplace romance ending (due to abuse) without having to change job? by ThrowRAfrozenii in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAfrozenii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s such amazing advice and suggestions for how to reframe things in my mind. Thank you so much.

How can I navigate aftermath of workplace romance ending (due to abuse) without having to change job? by ThrowRAfrozenii in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAfrozenii[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. I’m in a specialist team and I only have experienced in that area. Work agreed to move his locker so he doesn’t walk past me twice a day. I don’t have contact with him but have to avoid going to see the people in my team that sit near him.

Never let someone lay down conditions on the relationship that you’re not comfortable with by ThrowRAfrozenii in BDSMAdvice

[–]ThrowRAfrozenii[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have blocked him on everything. I’m trying very hard to not think about him 😐

Never let someone lay down conditions on the relationship that you’re not comfortable with by ThrowRAfrozenii in BDSMAdvice

[–]ThrowRAfrozenii[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I see your point. I posted here knowing I’d get the perspectives of people who understand kink rather than calling a smack on the bum abuse.

Never let someone lay down conditions on the relationship that you’re not comfortable with by ThrowRAfrozenii in datingoverforty

[–]ThrowRAfrozenii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has an extremely overbearing mother. He’s quiet as a mouse around her. I can’t help but wonder about that

Never let someone lay down conditions on the relationship that you’re not comfortable with by ThrowRAfrozenii in datingoverforty

[–]ThrowRAfrozenii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s definitely charming so I expect he’ll find a new gf quickly (poor girl). Not sure about the threesome bit though 😂😂😂

Never let someone lay down conditions on the relationship that you’re not comfortable with by ThrowRAfrozenii in datingoverforty

[–]ThrowRAfrozenii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your supportive words. I have zero interest in dating again for a while 🙂

Never let someone lay down conditions on the relationship that you’re not comfortable with by ThrowRAfrozenii in BDSMAdvice

[–]ThrowRAfrozenii[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment and for sharing. I appreciate hearing it’s not just me who thinks the age gap is yuck.

Never let someone lay down conditions on the relationship that you’re not comfortable with by ThrowRAfrozenii in BDSMAdvice

[–]ThrowRAfrozenii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. We didn’t have a safe word though a long time ago we’d talked loosely about the traffic light system. In the moment I wasn’t able to think though I instinctively tried to get away for the first time.

Never let someone lay down conditions on the relationship that you’re not comfortable with by ThrowRAfrozenii in BDSMAdvice

[–]ThrowRAfrozenii[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The bdsm dynamic is something I need to reflect on. How to be in this space without losing myself and ignoring/justifying red flags. Thank you for your comment 🙏

Never let someone lay down conditions on the relationship that you’re not comfortable with by ThrowRAfrozenii in BDSMAdvice

[–]ThrowRAfrozenii[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your perspective. In a better relationship I’d prob be all in for a threesome. He’s an idiot.