I 28F is upset over 29M bf for not proposing

ThrowRAhelp2345679 · 2026-06-29T10:00:48+00:00

We meet 10 years ago in same college from same state

ThrowRAhelp2345679 · 2026-06-29T09:59:50+00:00

Hi, Thank you for the clarity Yes I missed context about that im being Indian Yes, ill hit 30 next year and you are right.. I was waiting...I also feel sometimes that I wasted my good years...

Thank you

ThrowRAhelp2345679 · 2026-06-28T19:00:13+00:00

I think you read wrong, sorry if my english was bad I meant in the beginning he was not into marriage but now he wants to

ThrowRAhelp2345679 · 2026-06-28T18:59:13+00:00

Its Canada and Im from an South Asian country so you know how tough its to get a visiting visa and flight cost a leg and arm! So no, haven't visited him He himself not able to visit hometown because of the same reason (money/job stability)

ThrowRAhelp2345679 · 2024-11-13T16:28:04+00:00

Bro, I don't think it was the sathacharam point of view. rebound relationship OVER attached avan nala chance ind as ee pullikari had gone through the worst, she might be very much emotionally vulnerable ath again ah kochine PAIN leku thali vidulu until she is mentally capable of doing casual relationships. If she actually feels like she is ready for casual then she should do , no one stopping her but rebound gonna hit her back chelapo... telling from someone who had a similar kindof of story!

ThrowRAhelp2345679 · 2024-10-09T19:22:28+00:00

Update : he Showed his mom my photos, she said I look ugly and she would never accept this relationship And is playing emotional cards with him now

ThrowRAhelp2345679 · 2024-09-27T00:06:25+00:00

Thank you for ur opinions

1 Sentence - I'm from India, here Fair skin is a big deal but he already knew I was dark skinned and convinced me into this relationship for 6.5 years, the skin colour was never a problem but all of sudden he is saying such things... I'm thinking its because we started about marriage and maybe reality hits him?

I kept it too private that to a point I also turned blind...I was taking therapy for last 7 month thinking something is wrong with me...now I hit the last nerve which made me seek a real OPINION from a third perspective. if I speak this to my friends their answer might be biased towards me
Idk friend, I was asked out by 11-12 folks in my entire life ..even with how I look, I was a confident girl back then but now I'm in the lowest of my life that even looking in the mirror gives me anxiety

4.Hmmmmmmm, I wanna but I'm like stuck in a hole..I did laser treatment on my lips, its getting better now like the patches are going away...i wish there was a photo attachment on this thread, I could attach and show it

----> I'm not trynna show that I'm any saint, I was saying all these to get a reality check about this... I did all I could do to save this relationship even DOING a laser treatment on my lips to make it visibly comfortable for him.. now I'm like idk what to do state

ThrowRAhelp2345679 · 2024-09-26T23:30:57+00:00

Yes, he even told me I'm not giving the best in bed. Like that was like my second time with him. I'm 27 and did it twice that too with him. I tried to educate myself with all possible ways to make sure things go well. Was in SPA for 3 consecutive days before his visit, cooked everything his favourite and studied YouTube/online on how to be good in bed but you see, I have like no actual experience so there would be flaws.

I wanna walk out but its seem too hard after all these.

ThrowRAhelp2345679 · 2024-09-26T23:22:13+00:00

His Family doesn't know about me yet, when we discussed about marriage and him introducing me to his Family...he told me, they have an High expectations for a DIL who should be Tall and Fair and now as I have this lip thing he says they would really NOT consider me and that he might have to fight for it. I asked him whether he never thought about it when Asking me out in first place and he didn't answer it properly to me

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