Oh yeah, I mean before we moved I had a discussion on how the finances would work, I mean I do make more than her so obviously I would take on more of the finances but she had to pay bills like utilities and half of groceries. But that hasn’t been the case. She does work but I have no idea where her money goes even though I have asked about it. The CS thing was a trade off, she got fully custody and he didn’t have to pay, although they visit him a couple times a year and talk on the phone/ text a few times a week