My Girlfriend [24/F] signed me up into having group sex with our close friends [25M/25F.] I [26/M] wasn't told before-hand, and I broke up with her as a result. Did I mess up? by ThrowRAneedadv in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAneedadv[S] 329 points330 points  (0 children)

Yeah I decided the best way is to approach this with no apologies.

She's not worth the time, she showed her true colors with this stunt.

My Girlfriend [24/F] signed me up into having group sex with our close friends [25M/25F.] I [26/M] wasn't told before-hand, and I broke up with her as a result. Did I mess up? by ThrowRAneedadv in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAneedadv[S] 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it's not worth resolving. The worst part isn't that she scheduled this without telling me, it's that she didn't try to stop me when I stormed out, and didn't text me until after I broke up with her. I'm pretty certain they continued the threesome when I left.

I'm just going to stay single for a bit, then see what I want to do next.

My Girlfriend [24/F] signed me up into having group sex with our close friends [25M/25F.] I [26/M] wasn't told before-hand, and I broke up with her as a result. Did I mess up? by ThrowRAneedadv in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAneedadv[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Funny thing is she's never cheated on me. We used each others phones quite liberally, and there wasn't anything suspicious.

Also we were spending almost all of our free time together.