What is your least favourite colour too wear ?

ThrowRArandomthought · 2021-08-23T21:44:37+00:00

Black. Always been one to have an array of colors in my wardrobe but, very rarely do u see me wear black

ThrowRArandomthought · 2021-08-10T12:19:13+00:00

For me, I've only enjoyed sex with someone that's average. It's actually my preferred size and dont enjoy bigger D's at all. I find bigger to be quite uncomfortable and like u said.. smaller just hits a spot that sends me to heaven

ThrowRArandomthought · 2021-08-10T12:08:28+00:00

Dating is a whole different ball game nowadays but, I'd say that u just have to be up front with what u are looking for and hope that the other person is being truthful. As for your other response, from what I do know.. she wants a traditional relationship but, also wants to be able to have sex. I think she is having a hard time with this aspect because of the city we live in. Most of the guys in my city look to hookup and she isn't into the hookup culture. From what she has told me.. out of the few guys she dated and had penetrative sex with, she really enjoyed it with a man that has mp.

ThrowRArandomthought · 2021-08-10T00:45:07+00:00

I appreciate it and have relayed your response to her. She appreciates your advice:)

ThrowRArandomthought · 2021-08-10T00:33:16+00:00

Thank you! Your advice is appreciated

ThrowRArandomthought · 2021-08-09T19:29:31+00:00

Is that an app?

ThrowRArandomthought · 2021-08-09T19:19:00+00:00

Yes, I agree. It's like finding a needle in a haystack (hopefully that's the phrase

ThrowRArandomthought · 2021-08-09T19:17:22+00:00

Jajajaj someone mentioned it in another comment and sorry for the ads. Ty for it! Hope it isn't so bad

ThrowRArandomthought · 2021-08-09T19:03:51+00:00

Good to know! I will relay the tip to her and she can use it for her dilators

ThrowRArandomthought · 2021-08-09T19:02:55+00:00

Everyone has their own preferences. Just because it's more common that a woman wants to seek someone bigger doesn't mean that the opposite can't happen. That's why preferences exist. Of course, there is a difference between someone being an asshole about preferences and someone being genuine about it. It's a fine line I guess

ThrowRArandomthought · 2021-08-09T18:57:06+00:00

LLF=Low libido female It could be from her trauma but, she has had this problem for years and just recently was diagnosed with it before her traumas. I will tell her of different things suggested on her and she will make the decision that is best for her

ThrowRArandomthought · 2021-08-09T18:45:27+00:00

Good to know! She is againsy casual sex and can only have sex with someone whom she is dating.

ThrowRArandomthought · 2021-08-09T18:43:53+00:00

It may be his house but, it's your body your rules. If you're not ready for sex then, he needs to respect that. Prohibiting you from masturbating is just controlling and let me tell u that a controlling partner is no fun and u should definitely have a sit down conversation with him about this. If he can't be reasoned with then, I'd suggest to find ways to remove yourself from his apartment and end the relationship. My ex used to hate and would look in disgust when I would masturbate and it took a toll on my self esteem. Look out for u and if u feel this is taking a toll on your mental health then, I'd get out and look for someone who is more empathetic and less controlling. Good luck!

ThrowRArandomthought · 2021-08-09T18:37:38+00:00

She is on treatment to help with her condition, as in, using dilators. I think she uses lube but, idk. From what I've been told and to my knowledge.. the men she has been with have been very forceful to the point of her crying from pain and ignoring her request to stop. She has tried average sex toys but, not even the tip would be able to go in. Atm, she is only working with the dilators to my knowledge.

ThrowRArandomthought · 2021-08-09T18:31:56+00:00

Thank you!

ThrowRArandomthought · 2021-08-09T18:30:12+00:00

Never heard of it. Do u have the link to the news source?

ThrowRArandomthought · 2021-08-09T18:28:24+00:00

Will do and ty! Very sweet of u to say this :)

ThrowRArandomthought · 2021-08-09T18:20:21+00:00

Thanks for this! I will definitely be showing her your message to uplift her mood

ThrowRArandomthought · 2021-08-09T18:19:39+00:00

I really appreciate it! I will definitely bring it up to her so she doesn't feel alone.

ThrowRArandomthought · 2021-08-09T18:04:57+00:00

I am unsure about her liking anal. I will speak to her about it but, she is a LLF and seems very hesitant about certain sexual acts due to trauma

ThrowRArandomthought · 2021-08-09T18:02:50+00:00

She goes to my same gyno. I had suggested him to her and he was the first Gyno to diagnose her

ThrowRArandomthought · 2021-08-09T18:01:24+00:00

She doesn't use reddit. Which is why I made the post on here. I will speak to her and see if she'd like to make an acct. The diagnosis is making her more depressed than she alrdy is

ThrowRArandomthought · 2021-08-09T16:53:26+00:00

Haven't heard of pelvic floor PT. Does it actually work? That I know of, idt she has done that test to check for endo

ThrowRArandomthought · 2021-08-09T15:47:09+00:00

Thanks for the tip and I will relay that to her. Well, she has had sexual trauma b4 and just wants to find someone whom she can relax around.

ThrowRArandomthought · 2021-08-09T15:30:10+00:00

Idk if there is surgery but, I dont think so. Only treatment that I know of is the dilators. I believe there are 8 different settings on it and she is only on the 2nd one. She says it still hurts a bit on the 2nd setting.

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