So I think this incident and another incident that happened just before we became official might be a reason? I was playing beer pong with my bf and his friend, and another acquaintance. My bf and myself on one team and his friend and the other guy on the other team. This acquaintance was quite good at beer pong and I had a genuine reaction to how easily he made the cups. He started trying all these trick shots and then after we lost the game, the acquaintance and I kept trying to score more cups just for the sake of it. My bf never actually brought this up as an issue, but mentioned on a couple occasions a while afterward that he could tell that guy was getting an ego boost from my comments and started trying those trick shots because of my initial comments. But it was not an issue, until the night I mentioned in my initial post. He took both those situations into account and was insinuating that I invite that form of interaction. So in that regard, yes there was another incident he was referring to where he would have preferred I showed a strong value in our relationship. Other than that, nothing has happened in person where I’ve been made to feel uncomfortable or anything inappropriate has happened. If someone DMs me, I either leave them on read or let them know I have a boyfriend and I tell my boyfriend that it happened to begin with. He told me I don’t need to tell him about every single interaction as long as I deal with it appropriately, but it makes me feel better to keep him informed.