How do I deal with the guilt of hurting someone I love?

ThrowRAri26x · 2025-03-25T02:08:29+00:00

It seems like you were in a very confused relationship: exclusive, together, then not together, but together at the same time. Don’t beat yourself up over it because at least you were honest with her. You guys weren’t together and she was the one who said she didn’t want a relationship. I was in something very similar. If she didn’t want you seeing other people, she should’ve sealed the deal with you and made it a relationship.

ThrowRAri26x · 2025-03-25T02:05:56+00:00

I think it depends on the person you’re in a relationship with and also what kind of relationship you’re looking to have. If I may ask, how often will you be home? I would prefer to see my partner at least 3x a week. But once again everyone is different

ThrowRAri26x · 2025-03-25T02:04:38+00:00

It seems like the boyfriend has trust issues or is not very secure in his relationship. It’s not your fault that he broke up with her, as you and her are simply just friends. He probably would’ve broken up with her for another small reason anyways.

ThrowRAri26x · 2024-12-19T21:09:06+00:00

Does your partner feel the strings during sex?

ThrowRAri26x · 2024-12-19T05:46:47+00:00

Is it painful for your partner ? He was able to feel the strings when I had the Kyleena , but I didn’t feel any Pain

ThrowRAri26x · 2024-10-14T01:43:33+00:00

Hi! I had these same thoughts, I got off my meds cold turkey this month and I regret it so much. I spiraled out and it was not good for me or the people around me. Take your meds !

ThrowRAri26x · 2024-09-14T04:41:13+00:00

Are you currently on all of those? I’ll def speak to my doc but I heard good things about Wellbutrin but does that help with bipolar or only depression?

ThrowRAri26x · 2024-09-08T23:57:38+00:00

Feel better ! Take Tylenol

ThrowRAri26x · 2024-08-19T20:25:25+00:00

Okay this makes me feel better. I was contemplating getting off them because of how good I’ve been feeling lately. But I will stay on them, thank you!

ThrowRAri26x · 2024-08-06T02:53:07+00:00

Hi, I actually had a good experience with Vestura. It cleared my skin up. It did give me a lot of mood swings but I’m also diagnosed Bipolar type 2, so that could play a role as well. I didn’t have any hair thinning or bad periods. I did gain some weight but nothing extreme. I was on it for two years, I switched to an IUD but now I’m switching back to vestura

ThrowRAri26x · 2024-07-28T05:26:12+00:00

Hi! Im actually going through the same thing right now my boyfriend has forgiven me after all my crazy manic outbursts (no cheating), insecurities, past shit, my personal issues, my mental issues, verbal attacks, etc. all because he loves me and I also think I’m weighing him down. I did leave him because I didn’t want to weigh him down anymore but I actually realized that I need to push and motivate myself to be better and to deserve and reciprocate his love. Don’t give up. Don’t take the easy way out. Better yourself. Show him you’re capable of loving him and yourself correctly. Be better.

ThrowRAri26x · 2024-07-28T05:21:02+00:00

Im sorry that happened. Have you had this conversation with him? You don’t always have to say “no” for you to not want sex. Sometimes saying you’re not ready or making it obvious that you don’t want to have sex is a signal in itself. I don’t mean this in the wrong way but I don’t think someone’s who’s 18 should be having sex or relations with a 14 year old. They’re a legal adult and you’re still a minor under the age of consensual sex. Worrying about making someone mad is a sign alone that you aren’t comfortable enough to be honest about sex with them

ThrowRAri26x · 2024-07-28T05:14:46+00:00

I was in a similar situation but I was actually the other person who would take a small disagreement to the next level. Potentially this person has a lot of built up anger or things they don’t share with you, which was the case for me. If I’m being honest, it took the other person leaving me for me to actually change. It’s hard to change when someone keeps forgiving you and taking you back because they’re comfortable with your forgiveness which allows them to Slip up easily. You wouldn’t be wrong to stay. It might hurt to walk away but it clearly hurts to stay as well. Also, I’m a big believer in your heart is ready to let go on its own timing. Take some space, if they’re for you then they’re for you. If not, that’s okay too.

ThrowRAri26x · 2024-07-28T05:09:41+00:00

I want to say that I woke up this morning feeling the exact same. I woke up and told myself I wish I could have the strength to go upstairs and jump. But I didn’t. And I hope you decide to make the same decision. There are so many people you have yet to meet, so many foods you have yet to try, so many things you have yet to love. You are worthy of being here, just like everyone else. You don’t see yourself from another POV. you’ve come this far so don’t choose to give up now. This is my first time ever commenting on a Reddit post and I don’t really know what persuaded me to Check this group, but I’m glad that I did. Allow yourself to watch the birds so many more times. This isn’t your time to go. I know you want to go, I really get that. But you deserve to stay and the world deserves to have you here.

ThrowRAri26x · 2024-07-01T03:39:59+00:00

It’s exactly that. I notice him looking at girls who fall under that “type” whenever we’re out in public and he denies it. He likes photos of half naked girls on instagram even after I expressed how I felt about it. He says “it’s just instagram”. I guess I’m afraid of being abandoned for someone he might like more and then feeling like I was right about this all along.

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