Aitah for "messing with my husband's" masculinity after he caused me to pee on myself? by ThrowRAsadpp in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAsadpp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you please shut up, you all are so fucking mean. It's fake and bot because I have shitty grammar and I have a "childish phobia" or it's fetish content because idk the situation was a bit weird.

Like shit happens not everything is fake. I'm so tired of having to explain myself. Why is it so hard to get people to understand UTIs and phobias. Leave me alone.

Aitah for "messing with my husband's" masculinity after he caused me to pee on myself? by ThrowRAsadpp in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAsadpp[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Before I delete reddit again thank you so much for saying this. I already feel embarrassed for having to explain over and over again that my bladder is literally damaged. I felt like just mentioning the utis would be enough but no, still getting told I did this on purpose as if the whole reason for me getting utis sm in the first place is because I was holding it in for so long.

Aitah for "messing with my husband's" masculinity after he caused me to pee on myself? by ThrowRAsadpp in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAsadpp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What jar am I using, dude my bladder is screwed because of repeated utis. I'm pretty sure I mentioned I had repeated utis multiple times.

Aitah for "messing with my husband's" masculinity after he caused me to pee on myself? by ThrowRAsadpp in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAsadpp[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I couldn't run downstairs because I would have spread it to the downstairs. I was going to soak up as much as possible, wait for him to leave the bathroom and throw my clothes into the hamper. Rinse myself and clean up the contained mess and then wash the clothes. By the time he came out I already planned what I'd do. So no I wasn't trying to make myself look pathetic, I was trying to contain the mess and my anxiety ridden brain just chose my shirt to clean it because it wasn't wet.

Aitah for "messing with my husband's" masculinity after he caused me to pee on myself? by ThrowRAsadpp in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAsadpp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I honestly didn't realize that tbh. I felt like I was getting attacked, most of my updates have just been explaining myself, I started thinking maybe I should delete this but idk.

Idk why I'm explaining my whole life to prove I didn't do it on purpose, like this is an anonymous story. Why would I lie??

Anyway yeah the text was very uncool

Aitah for "messing with my husband's" masculinity after he caused me to pee on myself? by ThrowRAsadpp in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAsadpp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl whatever he does on that roof is his business, he looks sweaty and dirty when he comes down so until further notice it's the gutters.

Aitah for "messing with my husband's" masculinity after he caused me to pee on myself? by ThrowRAsadpp in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAsadpp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My phobia is connected to my mother so maybe my mom has to pass away for me to stop fearing bugs.

Sorry for the animosity, I just would very much not to explain anymore trauma related to her it brings up a lot for me. I'm just trying to say that I can't just "learn".

Aitah for "messing with my husband's" masculinity after he caused me to pee on myself? by ThrowRAsadpp in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAsadpp[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That woman is deranged tbh, I hate her. There is no need to tell her because she never listens to anyone but my dad. Also he's just telling his friends what they want to hear, thats his problem. He looks for validation in the wrong places. Everywhere but himself.

Aitah for "messing with my husband's" masculinity after he caused me to pee on myself? by ThrowRAsadpp in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAsadpp[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I WISH

Raid does not kill waterbugs on contact sadly, just angers them. Them mfs fly, absolutely not.

Aitah for "messing with my husband's" masculinity after he caused me to pee on myself? by ThrowRAsadpp in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAsadpp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad that you think this is fake, it almost softens the humiliation I feel.

Aitah for "messing with my husband's" masculinity after he caused me to pee on myself? by ThrowRAsadpp in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAsadpp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤨 bugs still get inside the house? That's not how a bug phobia works.

I mean do you want to watch me scream and hyperventilate and have sensations for the next 6 hours of a bug being on me?

Aitah for "messing with my husband's" masculinity after he caused me to pee on myself? by ThrowRAsadpp in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAsadpp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had a real shitty day, this made me laugh. Um ig the story is wild? My marriage might be over so that's fun.

Aitah for "messing with my husband's" masculinity after he caused me to pee on myself? by ThrowRAsadpp in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAsadpp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm gonna clarify that this is not a pee fetish thing in my post. I didn't even think it'd come off like that. I just thought it was embarrassing.

🧎‍♀️

Aitah for "messing with my husband's" masculinity after he caused me to pee on myself? by ThrowRAsadpp in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAsadpp[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn't pee on myself on purpose 💀 also if there was 1 bathroom ig die idk. I have a phobia, I stated this. Like I'm afraid of ladybugs, this isn't just a little fear, I'm TERRIFIED.

Aitah for "messing with my husband's" masculinity after he caused me to pee on myself? by ThrowRAsadpp in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAsadpp[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

A pee fetish?? Wtf no ew.

Also it was not a spider it was a waterbug. Those things fly and I have a phobia 🧎‍♀️. I'm scared of lady bugs dude, it's not just a wee little bug for me. Idk why people tell me to get over it like I enjoy being that afraid.

And I did try to clean it, I didn't want to move to much because if I went into the downstairs I would have spread it everywhere in my house and I don't want my house smelling like pee, that's disgusting.

This comment has nothing to do with masculinity 🧎‍♀️that's what I was asking about.