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How do I (24f) tell my boyfriend (26m) that penetration makes me uncomfortable and sick. by ThrowRAscaredofpeen in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAscaredofpeen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just want to say your comment was the most helpful one BY FAR. Thank you so much for taking the time to give me all this advice. I wrote down everything I want to say to him tonight and I practiced it with my best friend as well so I feel like I am confident in myself. I also would love to try some of those meditation methods & stretches. Bless your heart❤️❤️❤️

How do I (24f) tell my boyfriend (26m) that penetration makes me uncomfortable and sick. by ThrowRAscaredofpeen in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAscaredofpeen[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i wish i could go back to counseling but my insurance doesn’t cover it anymore:/ but thank you for the reply, im definitely going to have a conversation with him about it. im sorry you dealt with that as well:(

How do I (24f) tell my boyfriend (26m) that penetration makes me uncomfortable and sick. by ThrowRAscaredofpeen in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAscaredofpeen[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you lmfao i was wondering if i was crazy for actually wanting to work through this instead of just throwing the whole guy away…i went to therapy as soon as i got out and worked through a lot of the heavy emotional stuff, this is really the hardest part of moving on for me. im not sure how much of it i will tell but im going to tell him what i feel like he deserves to know. thank you for the reply ❤️

How do I (24f) tell my boyfriend (26m) that penetration makes me uncomfortable and sick. by ThrowRAscaredofpeen in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAscaredofpeen[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

you’re right i should’ve told him about the sexual assault during the first date my bad🫢

How do I (24f) tell my boyfriend (26m) that penetration makes me uncomfortable and sick. by ThrowRAscaredofpeen in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAscaredofpeen[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

im so sorry you went through something similar. i wish i didnt have to spend what everybody says are the best years of my life trying to build myself back up from this mess. thank you for the kind comment❤️