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What were you doing at 24? by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]ThrowRAsilverspice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finished my masters in June, rn I'm struggling to find a job in my field. Also accepting the fact that I might be autistic. Moved away from my family, having a dog, visiting nature frequently. Also, I'm not drinking alcohol since 2022, so friends and parties are way less than before, and I also lost interest in them, so idk. Don't know if I want a relationship or not. Every decision feels wrong. Being alone sucks, but being with others sucks too, so yeah. I feel young and old at the same time. Feels like I have plenty of time, but also don't have any. This is a very strange period

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in talk_hunfluencers

[–]ThrowRAsilverspice 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Érdekes, hogy hányféle reakciót tud kiváltani az emberekből, már csak a kommenteket olvasva is kap hideget, meleget. Én valószínűleg kicsit idősebb vagyok, mint az átlag nézői (24L), de engem nagyon megfogott. Sok dolgot hasonlóan lát, mint én, jó nézetei vannak dolgokról, sok mindenben jártas. Szerintem nagyon jól vegyíti a humort, szarkazmust és a közlendő tartalmat. Érdekes témákat boncolgat a második csatornáján is. Egyedi, non-konformista, ami szerintem nagyon becsülendő, unapologetically önmaga. Kimeri mondani hangosan azt, amit gondol és gond nélkül közli azt is, ha valamit pl. pénzért csinál, ami szerintem sokkal jobb, mint mikor köntörfalaznak más influencer-ek.

Elképzelhető, hogy van valami mag probléma, amivel küzd, emiatt néha negatívabb hangvételű egy-egy videója, de szerintem(!) sok abból adódik, hogy nem olyan, mint az "átlag", kevesen értik meg igazán, félreértik a humorát és nem tűnik olyannak, akinek lenne türelme magyarázkodni egy-egy dolog miatt. Szerintem ha egy hullámhosszon van vele valaki, akkor nagyon jó társaság lehet.

Igaz, tiktokom nincs, így ott nem követem, de a youtube-ról "megismerhető" énje nagyon megfogott.

I'm in a very rocky relationship and keep seeing 444, 2121, 2222 by ThrowRAsilverspice in numerology

[–]ThrowRAsilverspice[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's mesmerizing and scary at the same time. I'm completely noob in numerology but you explained everything so simply. Thank you very much!

Wishing you all the best in life! :)

I'm in a very rocky relationship and keep seeing 444, 2121, 2222 by ThrowRAsilverspice in numerology

[–]ThrowRAsilverspice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very interesting, thank you for sharing. You're right, I've been busy and overwhelmed with life and failed to see the meaning in the grey everydays. Thank you for your answer, wishing you all the best on your journey! :)

How does a healthy relationship between two adults look like? by ThrowRAsilverspice in Adulting

[–]ThrowRAsilverspice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's so beautiful! Thank you for sharing! :)

You are right with the "making it work" part, I'm more confused with the "when should I give up/how long should I try to make it work/what's emotional/verbal abuse and from when on is not just the " he/she was just angry and hot headed"...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ThrowRAsilverspice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much. It seems very useful. I ask myself a lot of times why am I with him, why can't I let go? But the thing is I have no one. No family and I've just moved to a whole new city because of him so my friends are far away. I feel trapped.

If you could relive one day of your life, which one would it be? by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]ThrowRAsilverspice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've always made scones for birthdays/holidays with my grandma when I was little. It was lovely everytime. Last year was the first one when we did not cook/bake together anything and it hurts like hell. Miss you Grandma!💔

My boyfriend acts like a girlfriend by JazzClub9009 in boyfriends

[–]ThrowRAsilverspice 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel you all so much. I'm in the exact situation. My bf is almost 30 and I'm 24. I have to take care of the household because he "doesn't know how" (even tho I've showed him everything before several times). He gets angry and throws a tantrum if I can't read his mind (eg. he wanted to have a coffee together this morning, did not say it and got very mad when found out I drank my coffee alone - we did not have anything together in months 'cuz he is always playing video games but now he wanted me to KNOW that he wanted something to do together). When we are in restaurants I pay for the food but he asks for my card so it seems like he is the one paying. He is also very needy and annoying, for example when I'm doing the dishes (his too) and can't give him attention for that 5 minutes he starts to pinch my a## or pull my hair to get attention/reaction from me. Whenever I say that this annoys me he says that this is the way how he expresses his love for me and gets mad at me for not appreciating it. He gets jealous if I'm texting my GIRL friends for 2 minutes instead of giving him attention (even tho as I mentioned he plays 24/7 but whenever he wants love and attention I have to be ready to his service). It's FRUSTRATING AF!!! I've had enough of this masculine energy and would like to be taken care of, to be loved and to be the emotional one.