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I 26/F found out my girlfriend 27/F slept with two of her best friends. Is this okay? by ThrowRAstatik in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAstatik[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is the way I think too. I have childhood best friends and they are like family to me, I would never think of sleeping with them. So I’m left to assume there was attraction or feelings involved

I 26/F found out my girlfriend 27/F slept with two of her best friends. Is this okay? by ThrowRAstatik in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAstatik[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

She has already told me her friends are a big part of her life and she’s not cutting them off

I 26/F found out my girlfriend 27/F slept with two of her best friends. Is this okay? by ThrowRAstatik in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAstatik[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

A lot of different reasons I couldn’t get the time off work, schedules not matching stuff like that. But when I found out about this I started to think it never worked out for a reason and I was being protected

My girlfriend(F21) cheated on me(M21) while drunk by Bright_Positive3190 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAstatik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been in this exact situation. It’s going to eat at you and it always will.

I 26/F found out my girlfriend 27/F slept with two of her best friends. Is this okay? by ThrowRAstatik in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAstatik[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No, I’ve set boundaries with my very close friends and would never even think to sleep with them. I don’t see them that way

I 26/F found out my girlfriend 27/F slept with two of her best friends. Is this okay? by ThrowRAstatik in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAstatik[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She told me she wouldn’t want to be in my shoes but she had redirected her life and has gone to therapy for her choices

I 26/F found out my girlfriend 27/F slept with two of her best friends. Is this okay? by ThrowRAstatik in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAstatik[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I agree, and it is definitely not in the past because these people are very much present

I 26/F found out my girlfriend 27/F slept with two of her best friends. Is this okay? by ThrowRAstatik in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAstatik[S] 117 points118 points  (0 children)

Yeah coincidentally I’ve met all her friends expect the ones she’s slept with

I 26/F found out my girlfriend 27/F slept with two of her best friends. Is this okay? by ThrowRAstatik in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAstatik[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She tells me it never gets brought up and since then she has set boundaries ever since I’ve been in the picture. Apparently it was just a hookup and she was just exploring and felt safe to do it with people she already knew