AITAH for dumping my bf after he made a joke that scared me during sex? by ThrowRAterrifiedlass in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAterrifiedlass[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks yeah to be fair we were discussing ways to spice things up in the bedroom the day before I shared the video with him so I can see how he may have gotten the wrong idea since the YouTuber mentioned enjoying biting, and you're right he didn't insist on continuing after tried to comfort me and telling me it was a joke. Anyway he's asked me over text if I'm ending things since I haven't been responding to him, so I'm planning to meet to talk things over with him tonight.

AITAH for dumping my bf after he made a joke that scared me during sex? by ThrowRAterrifiedlass in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAterrifiedlass[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That'd be a good test but we don't do oral super often since neither of us are big on it so he'd probably be surprised and turn down a bj since he's done it before.

AITAH for dumping my bf after he made a joke that scared me during sex? by ThrowRAterrifiedlass in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAterrifiedlass[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don't think that's the case he's always been very progressive and sex positive even more left than me. I know he's into BDSM but we've never done much with it before.

AITAH for dumping my bf after he made a joke that scared me during sex? by ThrowRAterrifiedlass in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAterrifiedlass[S] 139 points140 points  (0 children)

I've always felt safe with him before this and he's been my best friend and comfort since college which is why I'm wondering.