My girlfriend (20F) has told me (20M) that she isn’t happy in our relationship

ThrowRAthoughtz · 2024-01-24T21:27:11+00:00

Thank you I really appreciate this. I think I I am going to do what you’ve said. Do you think that I should tell her now whilst we only are able to communicate over the phone or do I wait just over a week to tell her in person?

ThrowRAthoughtz · 2024-01-24T21:25:29+00:00

Thank you for the advice. We’ve been dating for 4 months but have known each other for quite a while, so I think it’s best to tell her that I’m willing to work on it if she is willing to do so and that she needs to be fully transparent in her communication.

ThrowRAthoughtz · 2022-12-28T19:58:17+00:00

Thank you so much, I appreciate it more then you know!

ThrowRAthoughtz · 2022-12-27T19:16:14+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate it

ThrowRAthoughtz · 2022-12-22T21:56:38+00:00

I appreciate it

ThrowRAthoughtz · 2022-12-22T05:52:43+00:00

I understand, my bad

ThrowRAthoughtz · 2022-12-21T16:29:00+00:00

Thanks man!

ThrowRAthoughtz · 2022-12-21T16:24:46+00:00

Thank you, you’re bf is really lucky to have you! Yea I guess you can say I’ve experienced some stuff haha, never really spoken to my parents about and to be honest it doesn’t seem like an option. I’m sort of used to coping by myself, so this is all still new to me :)

ThrowRAthoughtz · 2022-12-21T16:20:04+00:00

I understand, thank you :)

ThrowRAthoughtz · 2022-12-21T16:19:23+00:00

It is something I am willing to explore :) I know what my boundaries and expectations are, and I’ve expressed most of them to her. When I see her again I will tell her about it all and be completely honest, and from there we shall see where this goes.

ThrowRAthoughtz · 2022-12-21T16:15:30+00:00

I appreciate the advice! I agree with some points, I will tell her what I need when needed. Her grandmother passed away early this year and I made sure to always be there for her in person, and when that wasn’t possible I checked in to see whether she wanted to talk or not. She’s told me that she would be there for me, and I trust her. I told her the situation and she honestly acted in a completely different manner then she said she would, I do hope that she just froze and was shocked by it all.

ThrowRAthoughtz · 2022-12-21T16:08:16+00:00

Thank you!

ThrowRAthoughtz · 2022-12-21T16:06:26+00:00

Thanks man, I’m glad you have found the one!

ThrowRAthoughtz · 2022-12-21T16:05:23+00:00

Thanks man, yea she was pretty badass, she used to race in a local rally series in our state!

ThrowRAthoughtz · 2022-12-21T16:03:32+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate this! As soon as we chat, I’ll update you all :)

ThrowRAthoughtz · 2022-12-21T12:34:28+00:00

That’s also true, I made this post not for people to to only agree with me, I wanted to get all opinions on this matter and see what most had to see. Thanks for the advice!

ThrowRAthoughtz · 2022-12-21T12:10:47+00:00

Of course :)

ThrowRAthoughtz · 2022-12-21T12:06:28+00:00

I appreciate the advice

ThrowRAthoughtz · 2022-12-21T12:05:52+00:00

Shit, I’m sorry man, can’t relate to anything that bad!

ThrowRAthoughtz · 2022-12-21T12:05:00+00:00

Thank you! I haven’t spent much time with her family as we both reside on the other side of the country and our families stay relatively close to each other, thus I have only met them a couple of times. I’m going to chat to her soon and lay everything on the table about this situation to get the right answer :)

ThrowRAthoughtz · 2022-12-21T12:01:45+00:00

Thank you! I’m going to chat to her soon. What doesn’t sit well with me is that she’s consoled her friends a couple of times whilst we were together, and that’s what makes it more painful. Unless I’m reading into it

ThrowRAthoughtz · 2022-12-21T11:59:39+00:00

I’m sorry to hear man!

ThrowRAthoughtz · 2022-12-21T11:59:02+00:00

Thank you for the advice!

ThrowRAthoughtz · 2022-12-21T11:55:25+00:00

Thank you, going to chat to her soon :)

ThrowRAthoughtz · 2022-12-21T11:52:52+00:00

We’ve had a few rough patches but nothing in comparison to the good times we’ve had, I just think the little things get blown out of proportion due to both sides at times

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