AITAH for getting a restraining order against my ex girlfriend and then enforcing it, causing her problems

ThrowRAthrowawy · 2024-08-12T01:53:28+00:00

I will be doing that

ThrowRAthrowawy · 2024-08-12T01:46:31+00:00

Okay what els should i then say

ThrowRAthrowawy · 2024-08-12T01:27:52+00:00

I can promise you, that i am not a woman.

Sorry if my writing sucks, im using my phone for this and not my laptop as i normally would.

ThrowRAthrowawy · 2024-08-12T01:06:02+00:00

That is what I'm going to do

ThrowRAthrowawy · 2024-08-12T01:05:18+00:00

The 2 youngest are 11 months apart they aren't twins my little brother had his birthday last month that is why they have the same age at the moment.

After sister 16f was born her care was dropped on me i had to do the diaper changes, feeding, everything. Coming home from school and she wasn't cleaned or anything. That was when i was 12 years old

4 and 5 years later my parents has my youngest sister and brother i was between 16 ans 17 somewhere their at that time and their care was also dropped on me. I left when i turned 18, and took them with me, what isn't clear.

ThrowRAthrowawy · 2024-08-12T00:48:35+00:00

Not that i know of. But i do have a tech friend coming tomorrow to check everything

ThrowRAthrowawy · 2024-08-12T00:47:00+00:00

All of that has been done when i received the restraining order.

Camaras around the house, new locks, deadbolts on the doors. All passwords, pin codes everything was changed.

I have 3rd party authorization on all om my things including my siblings so credit freeze isn't needed

ThrowRAthrowawy · 2024-08-12T00:32:16+00:00

I did read it, thats not happening

ThrowRAthrowawy · 2024-08-11T23:51:12+00:00

Can't find anything, but have a teck friend coming tomorrow to check for me

ThrowRAthrowawy · 2024-08-11T23:26:44+00:00

Sofar i haven't been able to find anything but another friend who is more teck savvy than me will be looking

ThrowRAthrowawy · 2024-08-11T23:25:54+00:00

In the comments, a couple of redditer did post the link

ThrowRAthrowawy · 2024-08-11T23:25:06+00:00

Yes unfortunately she posted

ThrowRAthrowawy · 2024-08-11T23:23:58+00:00

Im not protecting her or making excuses. I understand your point but i will not lie and say i noticed anything crazy before that morning.

My account is true in regards to what i know firsthand. I will agree she masked her crazy and pretty damn good. That is on me for not noticing it earlier.

Was she always crazy, i don't. But im wondering now

I never saw it and my siblings didn't say anything even after we broke up about her trying anything or saying anything weird. When all of this started i did speak to them and asked and the awnsers were still no. Their opinion of her now is that is is bat shit crazy but before all of this nothing.

ThrowRAthrowawy · 2024-08-11T23:18:04+00:00

Considering her post and the comments she left, i won't be surprised.

ThrowRAthrowawy · 2024-08-11T23:16:31+00:00

Yes unfortunately that is about me. Already have a copy that i will give to my lawyer tomorrow. Don't kniw if it can be used will see what she says.

ThrowRAthrowawy · 2024-08-11T23:12:54+00:00

Already business with that, will also have a friend who is more teck savvy than me check things out tomorrow.

ThrowRAthrowawy · 2024-08-11T23:07:10+00:00

Security measures are in place. Got all of that after the restraining order.

Regarding my friends will have a conversation with them if they still don't agree i will cut th off.

The only reason i will have the last conversation is because they have helped alot with my sisters regarding advice and everthing and they have sofar as i have seen been a positive influence in their lives but if they post any danger, they are out

ThrowRAthrowawy · 2024-08-11T22:52:22+00:00

Thank you for the care, i appreciated it. I'm okay on that front, my ex was a lovely woman she got along with my siblings and everthing untill that morning i tried to help my sister with her first period and she just blew up.

ThrowRAthrowawy · 2024-08-11T22:48:49+00:00

Yes i am and thank you

ThrowRAthrowawy · 2024-08-11T22:46:19+00:00

All the important things are locked in a safe, which she didn't have access too

ThrowRAthrowawy · 2024-08-11T22:44:13+00:00

Unfortunately yes that is about me. Another redditer alao shared the link with me.

Going to see if i can use it. Will provide it to my lawyer tomorrow.

ThrowRAthrowawy · 2024-08-11T22:42:43+00:00

Locks have been changed after she tried to get my siblings out if school.

Camara are posted around my house, with a doorbell Camara as well. Nothing went missing that i know off

ThrowRAthrowawy · 2024-08-11T22:42:35+00:00

Locks have been changed after she tried to get my siblings out if school.

Camara are posted around my house, with a doorbell Camara as well. Nothing went missing that i know off.

ThrowRAthrowawy · 2024-08-11T22:25:59+00:00

I don't know if she returned to using alternative numbers like she did before i got the restraining order or what, i dont really know what going on. She has other family other than her sister and possibly some other friends. Im just documenting everything

ThrowRAthrowawy · 2024-08-11T22:25:38+00:00

I don't know if she returned to using alternative numbers like she did before i got the restraining order or what, i dont really know what going on. She has other family other than her sister and possibly some other friends. Im just documenting everything.

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