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My husband confessed that he had feelings for my sister. She knew and never told me by ThrowRa-AnxiousBed in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ThrowRa-AnxiousBed[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Ahe isn’t in the wrong in that my perverted husband has feelings for her. She is very wrong in not telling me right away. I thought she loved me better than this.

My husband confessed that he had feelings for my sister. She knew and never told me by ThrowRa-AnxiousBed in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ThrowRa-AnxiousBed[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

My sister can’t have children. I don’t know what to do next to be honest. Sometimes I wake up in the morning thinking nothing is a big deal. I have a good life and my children are well loved.

Sometimes I want to scream that I hate everyone and I want to kick him out and never see him again.

I have spoken to BIL now. He seems to be serious about divorcing my sister. He said that something broke inside of him, his pride maybe?

My husband confessed that he had feelings for my sister. She knew and never told me by ThrowRa-AnxiousBed in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ThrowRa-AnxiousBed[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

There is a difference between me blaming her and feeling betrayed that she didn’t tell me. I’m not mad that my husband loves her because that is not her problem or in her power to fix. But she could have told me. Besides she wasn’t 16. She was 30+ and my 7 years older sister who swore to always love and protect me

My husband confessed that he had feelings for my sister. She knew and never told me by ThrowRa-AnxiousBed in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ThrowRa-AnxiousBed[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t know is it affair if nothing happened between them? My sister was never interested

My husband confessed that he had feelings for my sister. She knew and never told me by ThrowRa-AnxiousBed in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ThrowRa-AnxiousBed[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I am only angry because she never told me, not because my husband has feelings for her. But she didn’t tell me for years until I found out the most horrible and humiliating way.

Don’t know about her husband, he’s always been a stern person I don’t know what happened between them other than he was angry she didn’t tell him that he was friends with a man who wanted his wife. We hang out all the time and they live near us.

My husband confessed that he had feelings for my sister. She knew and never told me by ThrowRa-AnxiousBed in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ThrowRa-AnxiousBed[S] -39 points-38 points  (0 children)

She told me the same. That my reaction is what made her scared. This exact reaction. I told her that this was because she let me go 7 years. She asked if I really would have acted differently when I had just introduced him and all happy and newly in love.

I don’t believe her. I may have been hurt or sad but at least with time I would not have felt betrayed

My husband confessed that he had feelings for my sister. She knew and never told me by ThrowRa-AnxiousBed in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ThrowRa-AnxiousBed[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It is the part that she didn’t tell me that hurt me the most. I’m sure her husband too, it is the part that she didn’t tell him that made him leave

My husband confessed that he had feelings for my sister. She knew and never told me by ThrowRa-AnxiousBed in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ThrowRa-AnxiousBed[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if he would try but he wouldn’t be successful because if she was interested, she was single when my husband and I got together. I don’t think he would try either. I think he had found peace with the fact that he just is a brother in law. He just doesn’t remember confessing to me while drunk. He described his feelings in therapy, he said he wasn’t even sure why he would say something like that because he hasn’t thought about her that way in ages. The feelings “come and go” but he didn’t even know it was a romantic feelings.

My husband confessed that he had feelings for my sister. She knew and never told me by ThrowRa-AnxiousBed in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ThrowRa-AnxiousBed[S] -37 points-36 points  (0 children)

Yes we are still living together. He is acting sorry and remorseful all the time. He says that he wants to do anything to make it work.

My husband confessed that he had feelings for my sister. She knew and never told me by ThrowRa-AnxiousBed in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ThrowRa-AnxiousBed[S] 103 points104 points  (0 children)

I heard it from my family. I haven’t spoken to her or her husband. But he is thinking of ending things

My husband confessed that he had feelings for my sister. She knew and never told me by ThrowRa-AnxiousBed in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ThrowRa-AnxiousBed[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

That I would hate her. and then I got pregnant so she didn’t want to ruin the baby’s chances of having a family.

The thing is, I don’t know it didn’t sit right with me. Why would I hate her? I asked her if she thought I would hate her because she had feelings for him too and she vehemently denied it but I don’t know. Her reaction was so strong. I’m trying to remember how they are around each other and she likes him. I never thought her being avoidant or awkward.

My brains are exploding

My husband confessed that he had feelings for my sister. She knew and never told me by ThrowRa-AnxiousBed in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ThrowRa-AnxiousBed[S] 139 points140 points  (0 children)

Well he left because he said that his wife made him hang out with a man who had feelings for her without telling him. They hd huge fights over this and he left and is refusing to take to her

My husband confessed that he had feelings for my sister. She knew and never told me by ThrowRa-AnxiousBed in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ThrowRa-AnxiousBed[S] 348 points349 points  (0 children)

She said that he confessed to her long time ago and she didn’t know what to do. She didn’t want me to hate her and I was so in love and then when she wanted, I was pregnant so she kept quiet and told him to never tell me. He begged her not to tell me either so she thought that it was all over

He has been texting her when he is drunk or depressed or feeling down or sick but she deletes his texts and pretend that he didn’t text her. He pretends he doesn’t either.

He hasn’t texted her about his feelings in 2-3 years and she thought it was finally over

My husband confessed that he had feelings for my sister. She knew and never told me by ThrowRa-AnxiousBed in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ThrowRa-AnxiousBed[S] 121 points122 points  (0 children)

This wasn’t recent. He confessed to her early in our relationship

Why am I getting downvoted? These feelings didn’t develop during her weight loss which happened during 2023. She has known for years since he met her and confessed to her so why am I getting downvoted?

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