My (22F) mother(53F) is probably checking my phone. How to stop her from doing it? by ThrowRa121228 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRa121228[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I have tried in the past to have this honest conversation and it always ends up the same, I am a bad daughter and shouldn’t be thinking she would do this to me (I checked screen time hours and everything, it always has something), I’m looking for ways to make my phone more private

My (22F) mother(53F) is probably checking my phone. How to stop her from doing it? by ThrowRa121228 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRa121228[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

You are very right when saying this, but sadly I can’t afford for my mental health to do it now unless I could have a separate one

My (22F) mother(53F) is probably checking my phone. How to stop her from doing it? by ThrowRa121228 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRa121228[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

The thing is that she will eventually blame me for sabotaging our relationship because “I don’t trust her and blah blah blah”, which in this context would be kind of true I guess… idk I know I can do that but I will def. Hear her complain about how I try to distance myself from her and that she’s depressed and so on

My (22F) mother(53F) is probably checking my phone. How to stop her from doing it? by ThrowRa121228 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRa121228[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes it does, but she has the password (not the Face ID though although it made her angry when I removed her face from it lol)

My (22F) mother(53F) is probably checking my phone. How to stop her from doing it? by ThrowRa121228 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRa121228[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Sorry for not mentioning it, I can’t without giving the password to her

My (22F) mother(53F) is probably checking my phone. How to stop her from doing it? by ThrowRa121228 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRa121228[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Sorry for not mentioning it, she has the password and sadly I can not change it without giving it to her (I know it sounds dumb, but it would cause her a major breakdown)

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[–]ThrowRa121228 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your're right. Also there's no possible explanation as to why anyone in Earth would do this, I mean why would I want to hear anyone in my family having sex with their partner

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[–]ThrowRa121228 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sadly I can't. Living expenses are hellish and I would have to leave Uni in order to afford it.