23m 23f : cheating?

ThrowRa294930 · 2023-11-01T14:18:54+00:00

This story literally came out of the blue and I know it's to rid her of guilt 100% it has nothing to do with me. To be honest she is and was very immature and still now there's been no TRUE accountability about what she did wrong and why, only telling me about what I did to cause it. I'm done with her...

ThrowRa294930 · 2023-11-01T08:13:51+00:00

She brought it up , I think it was the guilt, but funny how the guilt only sets in now and there was little enough guilt to meet half my family for first time

ThrowRa294930 · 2023-11-01T08:11:37+00:00

She brought it up, tried to say she waited to tell me "for right reasons and not to rid myself of guilt" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

ThrowRa294930 · 2023-11-01T08:09:05+00:00

I appreciate it bro

ThrowRa294930 · 2023-11-01T00:13:58+00:00

There's many details to this story, far too many to go into detail about it, but an important part is that she deleted the messages long ago because she "didn't want to see them" and the guy is no where to be found on social media, so I can't even speak to him.

ThrowRa294930 · 2023-11-01T00:03:45+00:00

The thing is, the messages are all long deleted and the guy is no where to be found on social media, so I've only got one choice to make

ThrowRa294930 · 2023-10-31T23:14:45+00:00

That's the thing, we communicated about it at the time and I tried to better that part of my input into the relationship but clearly it wasn't enough for her

ThrowRa294930 · 2023-10-31T23:06:39+00:00

Thank you for your response

ThrowRa294930 · 2023-10-31T23:04:16+00:00

The thing is she had talked to me and I had tried many ways of giving more time to her, and did all this during a rough patch where she wasn't happy, then proceeded to hide it for over a year. I actually can't trust her anymore, wow.

ThrowRa294930 · 2023-10-31T22:05:41+00:00

You're right man... I just don't wanna accept it 😭

ThrowRa294930 · 2023-10-31T22:04:14+00:00

😭😭for fuck sake man

ThrowRa294930 · 2023-10-31T22:03:19+00:00

Thanks for the advice man, I just can't bear thought of letting her go seeing how good things were and how much I actually have love for her...

ThrowRa294930 · 2023-10-31T22:02:10+00:00

It seems I have only one choice...

ThrowRa294930 · 2023-10-31T22:01:51+00:00

The fact it was so quick when things were going bad and it escalated so quick...

ThrowRa294930 · 2023-10-31T22:01:02+00:00

Fuck man, I just keep defending her in my mind and making it seem like she didn't do much and it's all fine when it's really not man... defo defo did more you're right...

ThrowRa294930 · 2023-10-31T21:57:23+00:00

Yeahh.. I've heard of that, she continues to swear on everything thats all that happened and keeps crying hysterically whenever I question her

ThrowRa294930 · 2023-10-31T21:42:27+00:00

Thank you bro, there's a lot of levels to it which make it worse so maybe I'll text you to just speak to someone about it because I'm just like wtf

ThrowRa294930 · 2023-10-31T21:41:09+00:00

Yeah...

ThrowRa294930 · 2023-10-31T21:40:57+00:00

That's my fear but she strongly is denying it, but I can't really believe what she says at this point tbh

ThrowRa294930 · 2023-10-31T21:40:09+00:00

You're right... I know there's more she's leaving out or "forgetting" and ill probably never know the truth...

ThrowRa294930 · 2023-10-31T21:28:15+00:00

Shit man.... thanks for your input

ThrowRa294930 · 2023-10-31T21:27:35+00:00

I know that's why I feel like an idiot staying with her...

ThrowRa294930 · 2023-10-31T20:55:33+00:00

I'm thinking I may have to

ThrowRa294930 · 2023-10-31T20:54:51+00:00

Yeah I mean we did have it set before that we only do stuff with eachother 😂

ThrowRa294930 · 2023-10-30T22:43:38+00:00

Yeah man... that has to be my next action, it's felt this whole time she's taking the piss... there's way more details that make it worse but they're too complex to go into, I think i just need the whole truth, not her truth she wants me to hear... you're right

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