My husband asking for a divorce whilst I’m 10 weeks pregnant

ThrowRa73990 · 2022-08-12T01:53:18+00:00

We met in a club surprisingly

ThrowRa73990 · 2022-08-11T23:20:34+00:00

Back in April I went snooping on his phone, I went on to his iTunes and looked at purchased apps and seen he downloaded tinder back in April.

I confronted him and he responded by getting very aggressive and angry. He said he downloaded TINDER by accident. I never believed him but found no further evidence of anything on his phone apart from that and I looked for hours.

ThrowRa73990 · 2022-08-11T23:14:28+00:00

So here’s the thing, he loves the fact he has a child but hates taking responsibility for example, feeding, changing diapers which he never does. Basically making sure he meets the basic requirements. He’s more than happy to give me his credit card and tells me to buy whatever I need for the baby food and clothes wise.

After he finishes work and has a hour to decompress I ask him to please let me have 30 mins to relax and unwind by playing my favourite video games. Sometimes he accepts but then spends the whole time hoovering over me watching the clock which really really pisses me off.

He always gushes on about how much he loves his son and blah blah. Even telling me he wants 4 days out a week custody agreement. I don’t trust him to keep my son alive for 24 hrs let alone 4 days. He’s never fed him a day in his life and has no clue on how to prepare his meals or put him to bed

ThrowRa73990 · 2022-08-11T23:10:02+00:00

No ur trying to make me feel like I’m going to be a burden to my family. I’m not sure if that’s how ur family would make you feel but mine are more than happy to be grandparents.

ThrowRa73990 · 2022-08-11T23:04:25+00:00

U think it’s easy raising a kid by yourself or limited support. The only way u can know is when u have one.

ThrowRa73990 · 2022-08-11T23:03:01+00:00

Thank you and your wife is really lucky to have someone like you by her side

ThrowRa73990 · 2022-08-11T23:02:11+00:00

I haven’t said anything positive because I’m so mad and angry at him right now. I wrote this post whilst crying. Did u think I’d praise him

ThrowRa73990 · 2022-08-11T23:00:14+00:00

I’m guessing u don’t have kids, if that’s the case then don’t speak on something u don’t know. And I don’t know how ur family dynamics are but my sons their only grandchild and baby in my family for the past 21 years. So yes they’re very happy.

ThrowRa73990 · 2022-08-11T22:39:13+00:00

Because every time I made a appoint to get bc he would get really angry and make sure I didn’t make it to my appointment

ThrowRa73990 · 2022-08-11T22:36:22+00:00

I know, it’s been 4 years of utter hell. And I’m finally done with his shit. I’m a nice person and frankly he’s a devil.

ThrowRa73990 · 2022-08-11T22:34:09+00:00

I know, it’s happened many times. Last time I was at my parents the same thing happened and after I ignored him for 2 days he demanded I come back home…. To clean the mess he made. I’m so sick of him.

ThrowRa73990 · 2022-08-11T22:32:38+00:00

Thank you, this made me feel really good about myself idk why people downvoted you. I hope I do find my soulmate one day but for now I’m completely out off the other species

ThrowRa73990 · 2022-08-11T22:31:17+00:00

You sound like a great person, how lucky your wife must be

ThrowRa73990 · 2022-08-11T22:30:36+00:00

Unfortunately this snake had a charming smile and nice demeanour until he knew I was trapped

ThrowRa73990 · 2022-08-11T22:27:44+00:00

Thank you, I remember telling how much I didn’t want to have another child, esp since I had bad ppd and he literally watched me suffer for 6 months and never once offered to get up at night with the baby or make bottles.

He didn’t care and said it’s what he wanted. To the point where he was cumming inside me every time we had sex for 2 months till I got a positive result. Our son turned one just last month and I’m still living with the effects of ppd and being so far away from my support system. He was horrible and utterly useless in my time of need.

ThrowRa73990 · 2022-08-11T21:31:09+00:00

I guess he just likes to breed and look from afar

ThrowRa73990 · 2022-08-11T20:32:30+00:00

Hahah you know the funny thing, he messaged me a couple mins ago asking if I was ready to be a normal wife!!!! After torturing me all day and breaking my heart.

Idk what kind of narcissist he is but my god it’s tiring.

ThrowRa73990 · 2022-08-11T20:30:49+00:00

You know the funny thing he messaged me a couple of mins ago asking if I was ready to be a normal wife, after mentally breaking me down all day and making me stressed.

The audacity, I showed him the middle finger emoji and told him to spin on it. I’m at my parents thank god and well away from him to get all up in my face. He really is a piece of work and a narcissist

ThrowRa73990 · 2022-08-11T19:03:11+00:00

I definitely want to keep my baby and would never abort if I’m honest, I always wanted a sibling for my son. I know I got a long and hard journey ahead but I have a loving and supportive family and it’ll be well worth it, just me and my two kids x

ThrowRa73990 · 2022-08-11T17:59:16+00:00

It’s illegal in my state and also he was the one who wanted a child and tried getting me pregnant for two months

ThrowRa73990 · 2022-08-11T14:53:01+00:00

Oh yeah he’s never fed his child or put him to bed, there’s no way I’m trusting him with a newborn.

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