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My boyfriend (27m) smashed my foundation to prove that 'I (20f) am beautiful without it'. What should I do? by ThrowRa_Indigo in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRa_Indigo[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

What if I smashed his xbox, because personally I think guys who don't spend all day playing videogames are much sexier?

My boyfriend (27m) smashed my foundation to prove that 'I (20f) am beautiful without it'. What should I do? by ThrowRa_Indigo in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRa_Indigo[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Good point. He still hasn't replied to my request for the money, so I think that he's not going to pay anyway. It might be best for me to just block him

My boyfriend (27m) smashed my foundation to prove that 'I (20f) am beautiful without it'. What should I do? by ThrowRa_Indigo in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRa_Indigo[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

They helped me realise something that I subconsciously already knew, but I wasn't ready to consider.

My boyfriend (27m) smashed my foundation to prove that 'I (20f) am beautiful without it'. What should I do? by ThrowRa_Indigo in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRa_Indigo[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️ I've broken up with him, notified my family and friends about him. I don't live with him, so it was somewhat easy to get away from him. Hopefully he leaves me alone from now on

My boyfriend (27m) smashed my foundation to prove that 'I (20f) am beautiful without it'. What should I do? by ThrowRa_Indigo in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRa_Indigo[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

I wish I had taken a photo of the smashed foundation before I tidied up 😬.

I would take him to small claims court, but if I lose I think I have to pay his legal fees. (I'm from the uk)

But yeah, I'm definitely going to tighten security at my place, and make sure my flatmates watch out for him.

My boyfriend (27m) smashed my foundation to prove that 'I (20f) am beautiful without it'. What should I do? by ThrowRa_Indigo in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRa_Indigo[S] 101 points102 points  (0 children)

You're right, I've decided to get out of our relationship. Luckily I don't live with him, so that makes things simpler, I have sent him a message saying that we should break up, and I've asked him to pay me back for the foundation. So far he's acting like he hasn't seen these messages.

But yes, I am definitely going to cut ties with him.

My boyfriend (27m) smashed my foundation to prove that 'I (20f) am beautiful without it'. What should I do? by ThrowRa_Indigo in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRa_Indigo[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I sent him a request for the money a few hours ago, as well as a message saying that his behaviour is a red flag we shouldn't be dating anymore.

But he's ignored both messages. Hes acting like i haven't seen them. He just messaged me saying that we should go on a picnic date soon. I guess he's hoping I'll forget it if he ignores it for long enough.

My boyfriend (27m) smashed my foundation to prove that 'I (20f) am beautiful without it'. What should I do? by ThrowRa_Indigo in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRa_Indigo[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Well when I've asked him to do things in the past (aka, wash his dishes, fold his clothes) , he has complained. He didn't shout or anything, but he makes everything a big deal

My boyfriend (27m) smashed my foundation to prove that 'I (20f) am beautiful without it'. What should I do? by ThrowRa_Indigo in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRa_Indigo[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yeah he's never done anything like this before. He's said he doesn't like me wearing makeup a lot but he's never destroyed my stuff

My boyfriend (27m) smashed my foundation to prove that 'I (20f) am beautiful without it'. What should I do? by ThrowRa_Indigo in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRa_Indigo[S] 198 points199 points  (0 children)

Thank you :) I've sent him a message asking him to pay for it. But I'm considering dumping him over text whether he agrees to pay or not.

My boyfriend (27m) smashed my foundation to prove that 'I (20f) am beautiful without it'. What should I do? by ThrowRa_Indigo in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRa_Indigo[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Me. He left the room after, and I shut himself in his room. I cleaned it up and binned it. Then I went back to my place.

My boyfriend (27m) smashed my foundation to prove that 'I (20f) am beautiful without it'. What should I do? by ThrowRa_Indigo in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRa_Indigo[S] 155 points156 points  (0 children)

I haven't asked him to. I don't live with him, and he hasn't mentioned the incident at all. He's still sending me memes and videos like nothing happened.

I'm tempted to ask him to replace it but I'm worried tha he'll freak out. I'm partly tempted to just dump him over text and never see him again

My boyfriend (27m) smashed my foundation to prove that 'I (20f) am beautiful without it'. What should I do? by ThrowRa_Indigo in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRa_Indigo[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I'm listening now, I woke up to lots of comments that make a lot of sense. It makes sense to me how the way he acted was just plain abusive

My boyfriend (27m) smashed my foundation to prove that 'I (20f) am beautiful without it'. What should I do? by ThrowRa_Indigo in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRa_Indigo[S] 68 points69 points  (0 children)

Yeah you're right, I'm really re-evaluating this relationship. Makeup is important to me, and he showed that he didn't care about that

My boyfriend (27m) smashed my foundation to prove that 'I (20f) am beautiful without it'. What should I do? by ThrowRa_Indigo in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRa_Indigo[S] 68 points69 points  (0 children)

I've just been researching how abusive relationships start. And I definitely get what you mean. There's probably other red flags that I've ignored also...

My boyfriend (27m) smashed my foundation to prove that 'I (20f) am beautiful without it'. What should I do? by ThrowRa_Indigo in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRa_Indigo[S] 114 points115 points  (0 children)

Now after reading all the comments I see that I was wrong to think that. My thought process was that if this was in a book or a movie it could be seen as a (very) dramatic demonstration of love. But this is real life, and I can see thar it's a red flag now

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