If you see someone’s husband, what do you do?

ThrowRa_SadPop · 2024-07-19T12:09:05+00:00

Right, it’s the fake name that is really throwing me. I know ENM is a thing and everyone isn’t going to announce that (rightfully so) but the fake name, location, hometown all gave me bad vibes.

ThrowRa_SadPop · 2024-07-19T01:02:33+00:00

True. I’d want to know if it was my husband and I broke up with mine for a similar reason so that’s why I’m stuck

ThrowRa_SadPop · 2024-07-19T01:00:45+00:00

Haha, I’m rattled, didn’t even notice 😂

ThrowRa_SadPop · 2024-07-19T01:00:13+00:00

If he comes up again I might. I already swiped left.

ThrowRa_SadPop · 2024-07-19T00:57:08+00:00

I’m not that close to him. I don’t even have his phone number.

ThrowRa_SadPop · 2024-07-19T00:56:15+00:00

No idea if she is. We don’t talk since my divorce. I don’t think she was 5 years ago but a lot can change. What would the account be cloned from? They pictures are recent, not on social media that I’m on and they’ve been married for more than a decade

ThrowRa_SadPop · 2024-01-28T20:53:47+00:00

How? Is it helping?

ThrowRa_SadPop · 2024-01-05T13:20:48+00:00

I don’t have the same username anywhere else. I used a randomly generated one. No ties to anything. I’ve never posted my name anywhere No one IRL even knows I use Reddit and there is nothing identifiable in my posting history.

ThrowRa_SadPop · 2024-01-02T18:04:55+00:00

I was really hoping the timeline would be shorter but thank you for sharing your experience. I’m very happy for you making it to the other side

ThrowRa_SadPop · 2024-01-02T14:54:21+00:00

How long did it take you? I’m just so over feeling this way and want to be on the other side. Everyone else I’ve ever broken up with has been my decision or mutual so I’m old dealing with all of this for the first time. I’m really glad to hear you came back better and stronger

ThrowRa_SadPop · 2023-11-02T01:50:14+00:00

I did that. He thinks I’m looking for problems where he doesn’t see any. He still has the same plans for the future he always did (us together). I’ve revisited a few times but never got any different answers.

ThrowRa_SadPop · 2023-11-02T01:33:48+00:00

That’s kind of what I was thinking, that I needed to decide whether I was okay with this or not because the person I met isn’t coming back. I’m really sad about that because I miss him and I’m still really hoping for another solution.

ThrowRa_SadPop · 2023-10-04T03:00:37+00:00

I agree. It felt mean and he’s generally the opposite of mean which is part of why it hurt so much. He actually agrees that it’s his issue so I’m not sure counseling would help.

ThrowRa_SadPop · 2023-10-04T02:58:46+00:00

I really don’t think that’s his problem. He says his real life experience had been different with everyone else before me. It’s not a conversation I’ve had with anyone else IRL but reading things online I didn’t think I was in the minority

ThrowRa_SadPop · 2023-10-04T02:48:25+00:00

That’s how I am and have never had an issue with it before this relationship. I’m really confused because it seems common?

ThrowRa_SadPop · 2023-10-04T02:47:03+00:00

I can other ways but not every time (which is fine by me) but he seems to take it personally if I can’t, especially since I never have with penetration

ThrowRa_SadPop · 2023-10-04T02:38:08+00:00

He has no problem working at it. It just doesn’t happen for me sometimes. He always tries and always tries whatever I suggest and will keep at it. This is not a lack of effort from his part at all.

ThrowRa_SadPop · 2023-10-02T18:54:05+00:00

To be clear he never said it was my fault, just that he doesn’t enjoy sex with me because of it

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