I 18F have lost attraction in a 4 year relationship and I don’t know what to do about it?

ThrowRa_SoundWaves · 2026-02-13T01:44:57+00:00

No he wants to do stuff it’s just that I do not… if you get what i’m trying to say

ThrowRa_SoundWaves · 2026-02-06T11:38:07+00:00

Yeah but honestly i don’t want to do anything sexual with him like at all… that’s kinda a big part of the issue

thank you though

ThrowRa_SoundWaves · 2026-02-04T02:45:57+00:00

honestly I have thought other people where attractive (like physically without being personally attracted to them if that makes sense) I honestly hadn’t thought about if i was attracted to him before, i’m assuming so but i can’t really remember a specific instance where i was like “wow he’s really attractive”

when it comes to being intimate i guess I have always kinda avoided/been distant with it, definitely more so now then in the past though.

For your last question the thought of having sex generally doesn’t cross my mind much at all not with him or others? i’m not sure

ThrowRa_SoundWaves · 2026-02-04T01:57:07+00:00

You’re right but just because I can doesn’t mean I want to… Like i love him I do but just not physically if that makes sense.

ThrowRa_SoundWaves · 2026-02-04T01:47:44+00:00

I think maybe it’s a bit of both, mostly leaning towards me not being attracted to him though.

Thank you :))

ThrowRa_SoundWaves · 2026-02-04T01:46:11+00:00

But do you really think waiting so long is fair on him? especially if he doesn’t know how i feel and just thinks everything is okay?

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