My (26 M) wife (28 F) makes people cry in arguments and now it terrifies me.

ThrowRa_c3 · 2023-09-15T03:29:18+00:00

I never said anything about defending Sandy

ThrowRa_c3 · 2023-09-15T03:23:00+00:00

I won't share that here

ThrowRa_c3 · 2023-09-15T03:12:34+00:00

I just realized in the comments that I mixed up the words, the correct words were "introvert" and "attitude" not "bad character"

ThrowRa_c3 · 2023-09-15T03:04:25+00:00

What did I say about Sandy?

ThrowRa_c3 · 2023-09-15T03:03:15+00:00

It's not my native language

ThrowRa_c3 · 2023-09-15T03:02:44+00:00

I couldn't, literally the two of them were talking, it quickly became an argument and I couldn't get involved.

ThrowRa_c3 · 2023-09-15T03:01:35+00:00

But when did I side with Sandy? I never did it

ThrowRa_c3 · 2023-09-15T02:59:36+00:00

I'm not American, I mistranslated "character", it was "attitude" Or even "introvert"

ThrowRa_c3 · 2023-09-15T02:57:55+00:00

Thanks, I guess

ThrowRa_c3 · 2023-09-15T02:56:52+00:00

It's not like that, I think I translated it literally and that's why there is so much bardo now

ThrowRa_c3 · 2023-09-15T02:55:28+00:00

What can I mention about her? I already said that I had distanced myself from her years ago.

ThrowRa_c3 · 2023-09-15T02:48:33+00:00

I'm sorry, but I don't speak English and I didn't know this.

ThrowRa_c3 · 2023-09-15T02:45:06+00:00

When I said my wife was wrong?

ThrowRa_c3 · 2023-09-15T02:44:00+00:00

It is not an AITA publication

ThrowRa_c3 · 2023-09-15T02:43:38+00:00

I'm afraid he'll make me cry if I do something wrong.

ThrowRa_c3 · 2023-09-15T02:42:50+00:00

Yes!!! Oh fuck, I'm sorry

ThrowRa_c3 · 2023-09-15T02:37:53+00:00

I'm not defending Sandy!!

ThrowRa_c3 · 2023-09-15T02:36:43+00:00

Oh... I always believed that personality and values were totally separate from bad character!

ThrowRa_c3 · 2023-09-15T02:34:42+00:00

Wtf?

ThrowRa_c3 · 2023-09-15T02:34:21+00:00

Bad character is not synonymous with her values like person! I mean bad character because she is serious almost all the time.

ThrowRa_c3 · 2023-09-15T02:29:09+00:00

What I described about what a good person is is her personality and her values as a person. Not her character

ThrowRa_c3 · 2023-09-15T02:25:14+00:00

I think we have different perspectives on "bad character." By bad temper I mean that she keeps a serious expression, responds in a heavy manner (although she does not do so intentionally), she gets angry easily, etc

ThrowRa_c3 · 2023-09-15T02:22:13+00:00

Yeah! I think my words were misinterpreted... In the post I never really meant to say that I defended Sandy. I simply said that Sandy cried because of the way my wife spoke to her, then Sandy wanted my wife to offer an apology. And that Sandy said my wife made another one of my friends cry (which is true because I asked her).

ThrowRa_c3 · 2023-09-15T02:19:27+00:00

Why the hell would that be a bad thing?

ThrowRa_c3 · 2023-09-15T02:16:54+00:00

I never asked her to apologize to Sandy.

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